SamTheHobit
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Heres the question, is there something wrong with me that i dont mind dying a virgin/alone?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dying a virgin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SharinganUser
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Yes. You should be compelled to spread your seed as much as possible.
SamTheHobit
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losing my virginity is not the problem its i just dont think there are girls out there that meet my standards.Strelok said:
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SamTheHobit said:
What? Standards? So the reason you haven't lost your virginity yet is because no girl has met your "standards"?
Oh brother.....
Are you serious dude? Because for me,when I lost my "virginity",the ONLY STANDARD/REQUIREMENT I had for a chick was that she be female.
She didn't have to be the hottest,or the nicest,or have the best family history or background,she just had to be willing.
Now naturally,after the first time/first few times my standards increased,but for the first time,the excitement of it being "new" and a undiscovered territory overshadowed any serious type of "standards".
I'll just flat out say...I don't believe you,but let's say you are being truthful. That beng the case......
What are some of these "standards" you have that women have failed to live up to? I'd seriously like to hear them. I want to see if they're legit reasons,or just a bunch of BS.
No man who's a virgin should be saying something like that. I've heard of women throwing that out there from time to time,but never a guy.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NorwegianDJ
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Absolutely not!SamTheHobit said:
If living an average life; just getting by; NEVER pushing your limits and actually living life is for you, then YES; THIS IS FOR YOU.
You should sit down and figure out exactly what you want out of life. This "dying a virgin" thing is gonna spread (or is a result of rather) of the rest of your life.
Imagine being 70 years old, lying in the hospital, soon to pass away. What would you think of your life? Would you be proud, or would you regret not doing anything? Because when you're laying there, you realize how LITTLE it all matters.
Dont throw away your life man. Seize the day, do something new and be happy!
Is it possible no women have met your standards because you are gay? I'm not at all saying that to "take a shot at you" because I can easily see people attacking me for that. I'm serious though. If this is a sincere thread, maybe you aren't attracted to women in the way you "should" be, and that's where the issue is.
Just a thought...
Just a thought...
virgins put false standards on women so it makes them easier to dismiss rather than admitting to themselves they are deficient in some form or another. What are some of your standards that "keep you from getting laid". Are you waiting for the blonde bombshell who practices medicine and has a huge trust fund?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why can't he do both? Hell, back in the dark days of marriage and two kids (that I never really loved) I would jerk off to music videos on MTV. This is when MTV was more than trash. Kept me from jumping from any high buildings.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gdnDOMUpnsk&feature=player_detailpage#t=109s
At this point there was no turning back.
Remember fellows, nothing wrong with a little jerk here or there! Keeps one sane and makes your day brighter.
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Cordon pretending to be a 17 year old French girl is about as funny as when he was laughed off the horse betting forums for cutting and pasting penny stock plays. Remember that one, Cordon?BBbardot said:
Cordon, why is your French persona a 17 AND 16 year old girl. Pick an age and stick with it!
Some other French hints. Make her fall in love with a sleazy 45 year old man. That would be very French. Never have her refer to Fox News either. They don't watch or get that in France.
SamTheHobit
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Ok lol im not trolling:/ Its just that i have trouble getting close to people due to thd loss of my parents at an early age, and when i finnaly did give my heart to a girl after 4 months she ljbf me -_- Now after this happend I dont think i can ever get close to a girl again and I dont see myself fu@king a slut to just get it over with, sex is not as important as the relationship with the girl is. This may sound feminish or homosexual if you will, but thats just me.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
NorwegianDJ
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Then Go Get A Fvcking Relationship! Go Get Some Chicks.
God
Why Are You Complaining About Your Situation When You're Just Sitting Inside Masturbating??
God
Why Are You Complaining About Your Situation When You're Just Sitting Inside Masturbating??
I think the issue is you are assuming way too much. Nobody said you need to hook up with tons of girls. That's not my style, either. But to essentially swear off women, and make a statement like the one I made bold up top, based on just 1 girl is overkill. The reason people preach to "play the numbers" is because everyone will experience a girl like that at some point. That doesn't mean it's always going to happen.SamTheHobit said:
My point is, you could find a girl that is exactly what you want; that could solve any of these unsure feelings you are experiencing, but you may never know it because of your attitude. Take that example just as that, an example, and not a rule for all future relationships.
SamTheHobit
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This was pretty enlightening, thanks!PDubb75 said:
This is a classic case of buffers:SamTheHobit said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125865
Myth of the Quality Woman.
Fact is that there is thousands of girls out there that the OP (amusing he isn't gay...?) would give his left testicle to fvck.
If losing his virginity wasn't the problem, then he wouldn't have posted this thread.
The sooner he wakes up and realises that his being a virgin IS THE PROBLEM, the sooner he can start to improve himself and get the s*x he is crying out for.
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how old are you?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.