"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dumped my not so loyal girlfriend but still want to have sex with her

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Hi.. I dumped my girlfriend of a month and a half, 4 days ago and we haven't spoken since then. I decided to dump her because I noticed she was in contact with an ex (another girl) who she denied to about being with someone else.

At first I had dumped her for lying to me and that was just two weeks after dating, and that time she blew up my phone with messages and calls for days until we got back together. Now the problem is she's not doing that this time around, and I still wanna bang her considering the fact that I broke her virginity.

I keep on checking her whatsapp statuses but I have never contacted her since we broke up. I feel like I'll be a loser if I contact her first and at the same time I don't want her to forget about me enough to kill any chances of me ever banging her again.

I still wanna bang this girl though I really feel like she cheated, therefore we cannot ever date again. Her silence is killing me... Please help
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Everyone here will give you the same suggestion, move on. Period.
 

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GT40

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Spin her as a plate. Not GF material if she’s lying already. Bang her and leave. Done
 

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and I still wanna bang her considering the fact that I broke her virginity.
She was lying about that too.

What kind of girl would be disloyal to the man who recently took her virginity?

I still wanna bang this girl though I really feel like she cheated, therefore we cannot ever date again. Her silence is killing me... Please help
She's gonna tell you to go fvck yourself because she'll be salty about being dumped, or considering that she was disloyal, she won't answer your calls because she already moved on because she didn't care much

If you really wanna do something, set a reminder on your phone (alarm or calendar or whatever) to text her in 1 week, but the catch is that if you don't care as much in 1 week, you gotta wait another week, and so on. But if you still care an equal amount in 7 days, go for it.
 

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Well she probably wasn’t a virgin then because everyone knows that virgins tend to be much more clingy, whereas you ****ed her in only a couple weeks and now she’s in contact with her ex.
 

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6 weeks? Lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Six weeks, I barely remember their name. I’m not kidding.
 

Heweab24

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6 weeks ain't a gf bro - move on
Well she probably wasn’t a virgin then because everyone knows that virgins tend to be much more clingy, whereas you ****ed her in only a couple weeks and now she’s in contact with her ex.
Just to clarify, this person who she claims to be an ex is someone she's always avoiding judging from her texts. The person was always crying to her about no getting attention ever since she left the town they stayed to move to the city(where I am) and sometimes she would completely ignore her. What bothers me the is that she denied ever being with someone else... When she visited her hometown last weekend she even avoided seeing that person...

And about the virginity, that I wasn't lied to about. I did break her virginity. I'd be glad if I hit it a couple more times and then leave her for good
 

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Just to clarify, this person who she claims to be an ex is someone she's always avoiding judging from her texts. The person was always crying to her about no getting attention ever since she left the town they stayed to move to the city(where I am) and sometimes she would completely ignore her. What bothers me the is that she denied ever being with someone else... When she visited her hometown last weekend she even avoided seeing that person...
Either she was two-timing you and only pretending to avoid her ex so you wouldn't suspect they were still having sex, OR the opposite, and she was worried how you'd react to hearing that her ex still tries to contact her and lied about it to protect the relationship (which clearly went sour)

Only you can know which of the two seems more congruent with your girl
 

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I really can't believe this...

The fvck is wrong with men nowadays.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Either she was two-timing you and only pretending to avoid her ex so you wouldn't suspect they were still having sex, OR the opposite, and she was worried how you'd react to hearing that her ex still tries to contact her and lied about it to protect the relationship (which clearly went sour)

Only you can know which of the two seems more congruent with your girl
Only found out by hacking her phone and she has no idea how I found out.. Weird but it was worth it... Can someone please help me with a strategy if any from this no contact period going forward so I can get to hit it some more before I leave? If not then how should I handle this
 

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Only found out by hacking her phone and she has no idea how I found out.. Weird but it was worth it... Can someone please help me with a strategy if any from this no contact period going forward so I can get to hit it some more before I leave? If not then how should I handle this
Hacking her phone? My God how insecure are you? You did her a favor by dumping her trust me.
 

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Dear OP-

800-96JERRY (Jerry Springer Show)

1-888-456-2879 (Maury Povich Show)

I think they are looking for people like you.

I hope this helps.
 

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if you hacked her phione because you could hold it in your hand...
you didnt hack it. You simply installed an app on it... no hack, move along.

and yea... pvssy move.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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