mrgoodstuff
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Personally if it's your woman or wife and some flakiness is occurring my belief is it's better to check and confirm versus going crazy playing a guessing game .
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dumped my not so loyal girlfriend but still want to have sex with her
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
soulforge
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Losing the will to live here.. FFS you have known this chick 6 weeks and she is your GF?
I probably know my postal delivery man, more than you know her..
She's a potential cheat, and you still want to bang her? Why? No other woman left in the word.. Where is your sense of dignity?
The silence from her is killing you? What makes you think you can continue banging her, and remain unattached, when just a few days of silence is sending you over the edge?
You need to walk away from this Shyte!
I probably know my postal delivery man, more than you know her..
She's a potential cheat, and you still want to bang her? Why? No other woman left in the word.. Where is your sense of dignity?
The silence from her is killing you? What makes you think you can continue banging her, and remain unattached, when just a few days of silence is sending you over the edge?
You need to walk away from this Shyte!
mrgoodstuff
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The h0e can still be a plate. He shouldn't look at her as his woman. And if she's unreliable for s3x drop her.
I don't hack phones..I just get them super drunk then look through their cellphone and then send crazy break up texts to all of the orbiters and boyfriends (I have never known a women to have a screen lock,they are lazy) You haven't lived till you have looked through a BPD's phone.....Sometimes I don't let them know I did it.
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Nothing wrong with a dude, turning a GF into a plate... But how many guys can actually pull that off? Without getting emotionally involved again.
Think about it.. OP calls her his GF only after 6 weeks.. Does this sound like someone who has his frame in check?
OP claims "The Silence Is Killing Him" for a girl he has only known 6 WEEKS... Again does that sound like someone coming from a position of strength?
How many times have we heard of stories of men, who have walked away from toxic woman, and we have advised them to walk away... But they insist on going back JUST for the sex..
Most of these dudes, end up back on square one, sucked back into another round of toxic Bullchit.
I don't think OP can pull it off. He sounds desperate!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
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He does. At 6 weeks it's too early to worry about. It was just someone he was talking to . Going in the phone was kind of gay . I could see if that was his wife or woman of some years and he got tired of her lies .
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I agree with you on many things. I just felt like if I don't bang her a couple more times and drop her I'd feel like a loser, but I do get everything you're saying..
I'm just thinking of movin on with my life then, though I really would've loved to teach the hoe a lesson
mrgoodstuff
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I'd pound her for months straight if you are able. But don't waste time on her. If she's still DTF and reliable keep her around . If she's unreliable and plays games set her loose . It should be understood that with someone like her you need to have at least one other female .
devilkingx2
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Hacking her phone is a little much but at least it worked out for you this time
mrgoodstuff
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I dont think anyone should think it's that serious after six weeks . If it's been six years and you suspect your wife been lying for the last two, check her phone and email out . Respond accordingly.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
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She is a h0e. Treat her as such. If she's not reliable for fun and sex, ditch her.
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Thanks for the advice.. I called her up last night to my house, took her clothes off and unfortunately she was on her periods. Just after she left she started texting me saying she's not some cheap girl and I shouldn't just call her up for sex, but I pretty much don't care how she feels now. I think it worked out pretty well for me
mrgoodstuff
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If she's on her period, get head. It's not about her being "cheap", its about her liking you enough that you are the priority for sex.
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Called her up the second time last night and she couldn't see me coz she had to prepare for a test at school. Today I called her again and she said she's going somewhere and won't be coming back tonight. Is she trying to just make me jealous?? I then told her that if she's sleeping over at some other dudes place then I can't see her anymore.. She said ok to that lol.. What seems to confuse me is that the last time I called her over and she was on her periods, she later texted me that same night saying I should not try to use her for sex coz it'd hurt her. Now it seems as if she is flaking.. Help me mrgoodstuff
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Would it work if I lie to her that I want her back, and if she agrees I just **** and leave, just for sake of taking revenge?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You dumped her. She’s moving on with her life. I suggest you keep things clean and do the same. Trying to get sex from her signals to her that you have no other current options or that you’re still emotionally hooked on her…
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mrgoodstuff
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Eff her flakiness, she's full of ish . Worry about something else. I'm not even sure you should let her bother you.
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Thanks man.. Noticed she really enjoyed playing games with me with her flakiness. I deleted her numbers and I'm moving on now
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Seriously man, are you that desperate to bang her? It's over between you guys, and she CLEARLY is NOT interested in sleeping with you.. Why else you think she is making excuses..
Why do you need revenge? 6 weeks man... You barely know this girl, and your plotting revenge!
If you had been seeing her 6 months, I reckon you would be ready to dispose of her!
If a chick rejects you, or whatever you had comes to an END, you just walk away, with your dignity intact and invest in someone else, more worthy.
No need to Carrie out acts of revenge!
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Thanks for the advice
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.