That dude is a pompous ass....he doesn't own anyone.ThunderMaverick said:Owned? You hardly addressed any points I made. TooCold inadvertently own you, STR8 and Keto too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That dude is a pompous ass....he doesn't own anyone.ThunderMaverick said:Owned? You hardly addressed any points I made. TooCold inadvertently own you, STR8 and Keto too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good thing you refute my reply. I believe you now.STR8UP said:That dude is a pompous ass....he doesn't own anyone.
No offense to Friv but I recall Wyldfire siding with him against us. And don't we see the same paralells now with different posters?STR8UP said:It's sad but something tells me you are the kind of guy that's gonna have to get screwed over half a dozen times before you open your eyes, cause if I remember correctly you were posting about roses and sunshine LAST time you were around.
He totally contradicted himself and proved himself a hypocrite within the span of two sentences. And basically the rest were doing the same thing too.STR8UP said:That dude is a pompous ass....he doesn't own anyone.
The day you actually meet me and my friends you can reach whatever conclusion you like. Matter of fact, I would welcome it.Latinoman said:So...if we were strangers and saw you with the type of women you are hanging out...then it would be acceptable to reach the conclusion you are some "AFC" that is BUYING "love" from strippers and drunks.
Correct?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
There really aren't sides, but it's obvious that some of you do your darnest to stick together NO MATTER WHAT. Instead of actually responding to points made.ketostix said:No offense to Friv but I recall Wyldfire siding with him against us. And don't we see the same paralells now with different posters?
"Kinds of people he hangs out with"...ok Latinoman Jr.ThunderMaverick said:Yes, Kontroller and Keto would.:crackup:
Which is really ironic, isn't it folks? STR8 always whines about people assuming what kind of person he is BASED off telling us about the kinds of people that he hangs out with.
Is that supposed to surprise us?STR8UP said:Excuse me, but I have some crack wh0res kocking at my door, gotta go...
STR8UP said:"Kinds of people he hangs out with"...ok Latinoman Jr.
Excuse me, but I have some crack wh0res kocking at my door, gotta go...
Yea, cuz I'm sure his reputation has been irreparably damaged by now.iqqi said:You DON'T know that, and it is pretty disrespectful of another human being who has done nothing to you, to come here and air him out like that.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Wow. He really showed us!TooColdUlrick said:on second thought, i will call your asses out.
keto: you are a bitter, hostile, punk. you don't know sh!t about women.
KontrollerX: you are worse, a true masterpiece.
MacAvoy: don't know enough, but you are in the same crowd. consider that an assumption.
STR8UP: you are a pathological liar. i think you need professional help. really.
STR8UP said:Yea, cuz I'm sure his reputation has been irreparably damaged by now.
Poor guy.
I must have. Help me out if you don't mind.ThunderMaverick said:What? Did you completely miss the point of that statement? It was a joke wrapped around a very good point.
I'm not accusing you of being a guy who hangs out with ....
ah never mind.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I hate it when you come into a thread and its already 8 pages long. Then to truly understand you have to read it all. The worst was coming into a MNIN 15+ pages in.reset said:oh damn looks like I missed a fun thread. I'm tempted to read it.
Everyone still friends? That's good.
ketostix said:Tonight I saw a disgusting example of AFCism. I was at Walmart ....
It's almost more fun when I don't know what happened.Mr.Positive said:This thread is a disgrace to the mature forum.
It's 9 pages of flaming, nothing good, just people taking cheap shots at each other.
We're better than this here. It's time we start acting like it.
STR8UP said:I must have. Help me out if you don't mind.
reset said:It's almost more fun when I don't know what happened.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.