Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well, how was it?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
It was too crowded, in fact. I had to stop the people several times from talking to get in session. We had about two sessions by asking questions to see if they are True or False. Alot of people agreed on the same topic and such.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Sweet, glad to hear that there's a lot of interest. Suggestion: next time select only one or two topics before hand and let everyone know before hand. Maybe even have a poll to choose the next topic.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
send me a PM and let me know when the next chat is to take place and i shall participate.
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Turbo Lover GT2
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I do Yahoo!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Francisco d'Anconia: Whats your msn addy?
Laterz...
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Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
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David DeAngelo
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Leave your screennames here and you will be invited to the chat as soon as the chat session begins. I also advise everyone to come to the chat 30 minutes earlier than the scheduled time to have some small discussions before sessions begin.
SESSION TOPICS
This week's sarges/approaches
Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
The Challenge for next week
Experiences
David DeAngelo
RSD
ASF
Routines
*optional
QUESTIONS/COMMENTS/REQUESTS/MISC. INFORMATION- Contact me via Private Message.
PM's will be sent to those who have previously signed up.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
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Chat is going on right now, we have around seven people so feel free to join. Chat name is "donjuanchat" no spaces. See you there.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Thankyou to ~ªêQµïTª$~ for hosting the Don Juan chat room on IRC
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.