Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well, how was it?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
It was too crowded, in fact. I had to stop the people several times from talking to get in session. We had about two sessions by asking questions to see if they are True or False. Alot of people agreed on the same topic and such.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Sweet, glad to hear that there's a lot of interest. Suggestion: next time select only one or two topics before hand and let everyone know before hand. Maybe even have a poll to choose the next topic.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
send me a PM and let me know when the next chat is to take place and i shall participate.
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Turbo Lover GT2
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I do Yahoo!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Francisco d'Anconia: Whats your msn addy?
Laterz...
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Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
The Challenge for next week
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David DeAngelo
RSD
ASF
Routines
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
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Chat is going on right now, we have around seven people so feel free to join. Chat name is "donjuanchat" no spaces. See you there.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Thankyou to ~ªêQµïTª$~ for hosting the Don Juan chat room on IRC
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.