Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well, how was it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
It was too crowded, in fact. I had to stop the people several times from talking to get in session. We had about two sessions by asking questions to see if they are True or False. Alot of people agreed on the same topic and such.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Sweet, glad to hear that there's a lot of interest. Suggestion: next time select only one or two topics before hand and let everyone know before hand. Maybe even have a poll to choose the next topic.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
send me a PM and let me know when the next chat is to take place and i shall participate.
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Turbo Lover GT2
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I do Yahoo!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Francisco d'Anconia: Whats your msn addy?
Laterz...
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Your weakness
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Leave your screennames here and you will be invited to the chat as soon as the chat session begins. I also advise everyone to come to the chat 30 minutes earlier than the scheduled time to have some small discussions before sessions begin.
SESSION TOPICS
This week's sarges/approaches
Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
The Challenge for next week
Experiences
David DeAngelo
RSD
ASF
Routines
*optional
QUESTIONS/COMMENTS/REQUESTS/MISC. INFORMATION- Contact me via Private Message.
PM's will be sent to those who have previously signed up.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
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Chat is going on right now, we have around seven people so feel free to join. Chat name is "donjuanchat" no spaces. See you there.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Thankyou to ~ªêQµïTª$~ for hosting the Don Juan chat room on IRC
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.