"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by tactic
undes, i can send you the chat log if you want
oh that would be cool.... im curious what you guys talked about...

[email protected]

thanks
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Well, how was it?
It was too crowded, in fact. I had to stop the people several times from talking to get in session. We had about two sessions by asking questions to see if they are True or False. Alot of people agreed on the same topic and such.
 

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Originally posted by tactic
It was too crowded, in fact. I had to stop the people several times from talking to get in session. We had about two sessions by asking questions to see if they are True or False. Alot of people agreed on the same topic and such.
Sweet, glad to hear that there's a lot of interest. Suggestion: next time select only one or two topics before hand and let everyone know before hand. Maybe even have a poll to choose the next topic.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia: Whats your msn addy?:D


Laterz...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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send me a PM and let me know when the next chat is to take place and i shall participate.

Eastern standard time is fine.

***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.

you f'kers know who you are :D
 

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Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Francisco d'Anconia: Whats your msn addy?:D


Laterz...
I do Yahoo!
 

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Don Juan Chat Live on AIM will be scheduled this Saturday 7/30/05 at 4:00 PM EST.


Any questions and comments, please private message tactic.

Leave your screennames here and you will be invited to the chat as soon as the chat session begins. I also advise everyone to come to the chat 30 minutes earlier than the scheduled time to have some small discussions before sessions begin.

SESSION TOPICS

This week's sarges/approaches
Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
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SESSION BEGINGS IN: 1 Hour 54 Minutes
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonJuanChat again?
 

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The turn-out was bad....

There will be a re-session tonight at 7:00 PM EST.
 

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Chat is going on right now, we have around seven people so feel free to join. Chat name is "donjuanchat" no spaces. See you there.:D
 

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aim:gochat?roomname=donjuanchat

Ended: 7:40PM EST
 
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Mine is TheBoxFactory.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mine is PUAEB
 

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Tommorow is the next chat
 

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at what time
 

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7:00PM EST
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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