Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Well, how was it?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
It was too crowded, in fact. I had to stop the people several times from talking to get in session. We had about two sessions by asking questions to see if they are True or False. Alot of people agreed on the same topic and such.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Sweet, glad to hear that there's a lot of interest. Suggestion: next time select only one or two topics before hand and let everyone know before hand. Maybe even have a poll to choose the next topic.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
drixsa
Master Don Juan
send me a PM and let me know when the next chat is to take place and i shall participate.
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
Eastern standard time is fine.
***if it's simple **** though for newbs count me out i'm more interested in talked to ppl that know their sh!t and/or have been around here for a while.
you f'kers know who you are
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
Turbo Lover GT2
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
I can participate anytime I'm online, although I'm often out or at work.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I do Yahoo!Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
Francisco d'Anconia: Whats your msn addy?
Laterz...
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Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
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Leave your screennames here and you will be invited to the chat as soon as the chat session begins. I also advise everyone to come to the chat 30 minutes earlier than the scheduled time to have some small discussions before sessions begin.
SESSION TOPICS
This week's sarges/approaches
Your weakness
Tyler Durden's 25 Point Checklist debate*
The Challenge for next week
Experiences
David DeAngelo
RSD
ASF
Routines
*optional
QUESTIONS/COMMENTS/REQUESTS/MISC. INFORMATION- Contact me via Private Message.
PM's will be sent to those who have previously signed up.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
InsidiousNstinct
Master Don Juan
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Chat is going on right now, we have around seven people so feel free to join. Chat name is "donjuanchat" no spaces. See you there.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Thankyou to ~ªêQµïTª$~ for hosting the Don Juan chat room on IRC
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
all the time and effort you spent
THANKYOU
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.