"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Al Moh.

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Hey Snake Eyes, so how long are you not going to have internet? This is also about reporting back every week and checking with other people.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fukc it, I'm in cause it's the summer and I have nothing better to do:up:

I'm 18 just graduated first year of college and I'm on my way to becoming a natural. I'm big into RSD but first found out about PU over a year and a half ago from sosuave (biiiiig KJ for the first year tho... on another account). I've been getting pretty good lately, so this is just trying to help me cement my success and keep practicing over the summer.
 

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I'm 18 just graduated first year of college and I'm on my way to becoming a natural.
You are becoming a natural? You got to tell me how you're doing that!

WHatever, you're in and DJ Snake Eyes too, but he'll better report back at the end of the first week.

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schttrj
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Haha it's just a mindset dude, a big one over at RSD. Their all about natural game, no canned anything, no routines, just the confidence in one's self shining through. I recommend anyone who doesn't use any canned stuff to head over the the RSD forum and read a little, you might be surprised at what you can learn.
 

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Alright guys, one more week. Get ready^^ If you like you can do a pre-BC week studying some theorie on approaches or whatever. Or you just don't. Well, at least please read the BC introduction now up to the point where the first week is about to start.

Prepare yourself! What does that mean? It means buckle your seatbelt, Djs, 'cause AFC-town is going bye-bye!


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Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
PHAT Rabbit
B Love
oldschooler
LostAndConfused
czy
JackRyanJuan
AJTD
Young Anikan
Colin O'Brien
In Motion
Daddy The Pimp
Punisha
Erasmus
Pathetik
Demon Wolf
Privitor
Heart Break Kid
scarface316
LaoRyuu-Des
Guybrush
yungahdubz
TankMan
DJ Snake Eyes
Touchout
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Heya, Im a total newbe to this. Im 20 years old, have average looks apart from I look young for my age and have good fitness. Im shy infront of new people and females, but I try to be a sociable person.

I have been looking around this site for a month or so, and im ready to get up and give it my all.

I want to be able to get rid of approach anxiety, build confidence, and improve my DJ'ing.

So bring on May 22nd
 

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Count me IN!

About me, 17 junior in high school. I never had a girlfriend before, never kissed a girl or anything. I don't even have any close friends that are girls man, I suck.

When I am around a girl I like, instead of trying to flirt with them I go and try to act uninterested. (omg I am so childish.) I would try to act like I am not looking at them but when they turn around I look. I don't act like myself around girls that I like but when I CAN around girls I don't like, they LIKE ME.

I use to get a lot of interest from this one girl but I never made my move and now I think she lost interest in me or is really good at concealing it. She is a big oneitus that I need to get rid of by associating myself with more girls.

Well yea, that's my life story guys. Good luck to us all ! ^^
 

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Count me in this bootcamp!!

I'm 25 (I know, old compared to some of you people), 5'7". I don't have problems with talking or approaching women. I am athletic. There are a couple of things I know I need to work on, so I will go through with this. I work at Bahama Breeze, a restaurant. There are many peers at work who always talk about the fine ladies that come in to eat on the Friday and Saturday evenings. My challenge is to show that I could pick these women up anytime, even while I'm working. I don't care about the success rate. This is to help myself and an improvement in my confidence. A good way to build my social skills and circle while having fun. Thanks for starting this up! I will do my best to not give up
 

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Add me.
I'm 24. 6'1. Been told by way too many people that I'm attractive even though I personally feel like I'm out of shape and hadn't been to the gym in ages. I can approach find if I am in a good confident mood. It has been down for a while but I've just started going back into the gym and going to get back into shape. Haven't done no hooking up since about Feb. 2007 and Aug. 2006 before that.

I do live in a college town, so it should be pretty easy when going out Thurs,Fri,Sat nights but I just have to get into the right mindset and head out.

Gonna see what you guys do during the rest of the week to find HBs.
 

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Welcome in.
BTW, I am going to close the list on the 21th to assign groups, so everyone who is still thinking about joining, please join till the 20th.

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Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
PHAT Rabbit
B Love
oldschooler
LostAndConfused
czy
JackRyanJuan
AJTD
Young Anikan
Colin O'Brien
In Motion
Daddy The Pimp
Punisha
Erasmus
Pathetik
Demon Wolf
Privitor
Heart Break Kid
scarface316
LaoRyuu-Des
Guybrush
yungahdubz
TankMan
DJ Snake Eyes
Touchout
Anthrax
Kuzuri.Toukon
Kid Style
QuezNozet
rushing dude 123
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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rushing dude 123

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i wasn't able to do the fourth week, which is 10 rejections in a week and i am still trying, but i may need to refresh on some of the basics. I will start with u guys, while in my own time i will b trying my tasks i made for myself. Just letting u know guys, just by getting to the third week taught me so much. With each task u complete after its over u will b able to do it automatically without trying.
 

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rushing dude 123 said:
i wasn't able to do the fourth week, which is 10 rejections in a week and i am still trying,
Really? I think that would be the easiest (and most fun) part of this. I mean you can take insults and dirty jokes to a whole new level because your actually trying to get rejected haha
 

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Can you put up a link for the BC intro now al moh?

Cheers!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Count me in aswell, been looking to do the boot camp for a while, just need the support of you guys!
 

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Touchout said:
Really? I think that would be the easiest (and most fun) part of this. I mean you can take insults and dirty jokes to a whole new level because your actually trying to get rejected haha
So true, but getting rejected is going out of ur comfort zone, like i cud get 10 numbers in a week because i usually close when i am comfortable with it and feel like its going good. The thing about that is, u don't explore the unknown and when u get rejected its probablly because u havn't been in that situation before. So by getting rejected ur doing something more wilder than before, which will lead u to gain new experience. Basically i am to use to the area i am in now, which is a problem i am going to solve.

but next time around i am just going have fun with it.

RD: whats ur number
HB blah blah here
RD: uhhhhh r u sure u want to give me this?, do u want it back lol


btw al moh very nice for starting this thread, i hope u c it through to the end
 

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New list (last one isn't editable anymore):

Al Moh.
Killer Six Pac
Deadly_Assassin
Apostle IX
bluemanson
Darles Chickens
sam3083
dice
gtownjuan
just so suave
schttrj
PHAT Rabbit
B Love
oldschooler
LostAndConfused
czy
JackRyanJuan
AJTD
Young Anikan
Colin O'Brien
In Motion
Daddy The Pimp
Punisha
Erasmus
Pathetik
Demon Wolf
Privitor
Heart Break Kid
scarface316
LaoRyuu-Des
Guybrush
yungahdubz
TankMan
DJ Snake Eyes
Touchout
Anthrax
Kuzuri.Toukon
Kid Style
QuezNozet
rushing dude 123
Raoul Duke
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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