"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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does the game change after you've already had sex with a girl?

garruk

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after you've already had sex, is there anything you do differently?

i feel like certain sexual tension moves are kinda pointless afterwards? am i wrong?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chickfight

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Typically, but not always, once you've had sex with a girl the power shifts to your favor. That's why usually a girl will have to trust you to a certain degree before she'll have sex with you, unless she's drunk or promiscuous. If it's just a regular girl, you no longer have to worry about being persistent as she will definitely come to you. Also, you're allowed to be as sweet as you want to her right after you've had sex. In fact I'd recommend it if you're looking for a relationship.
 

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Chickfight said:
Typically, but not always, once you've had sex with a girl the power shifts to your favor. That's why usually a girl will have to trust you to a certain degree before she'll have sex with you, unless she's drunk or promiscuous. If it's just a regular girl, you no longer have to worry about being persistent as she will definitely come to you. Also, you're allowed to be as sweet as you want to her right after you've had sex. In fact I'd recommend it if you're looking for a relationship.
hmm i can see that. thanks chickfight.
 

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I would agree the game does change. The chase is over and you have already crossed that line of sexual tension and awkwardness. It's almost like once you get to that point you can get on with it and it's starts coming more naturally and easier as she will now be more prone to coming to you. Beforehand it's like a game of getting to that point.
 

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i dunno, i feel the game still needs to be there. just not as heavy as before. you still gotta not be needy and always on her ass. like for me, i still need to back off from this girl i'm seeing otherwise i'll send her running. we've had sex plenty times but because of how needy i am, it's not enough and i want her even more now but i force myself to let her be until she comes back for more and she always does eventually. so the games still there but just not as much as in the beginning. the chase is over but you gotta stay cool or you'll lose her :/
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Hollysh1t guys, if you have to change anything it means u'r a phony & u'r faking persona just to get her in the bag...

fvck, if u have to change after bagging a chic, u'r not only cheating her u'r cheating u'rself...

U should have shuch a strong frame that u don't have to change for anyone, on anyday, at anytime...fvck!!!
 

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There is a consensus on here that the game in the broader sense of the term should remain same, what you spit out might need to change a little - like the technics, the verbal play, and you might have to show the more vulnerable and sweeter side of you (only a sneak peek, not your whole life story and all the bloody "feelings"). Incougrency does suck in-respect to any person, that's why you should be genuine to begin with. I have a friend like that who is Jackel and Hide kind of persona, needless to say he is no longer a friend, probably never was.
 

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garruk said:
after you've already had sex, is there anything you do differently?

i feel like certain sexual tension moves are kinda pointless afterwards? am i wrong?
Pretty much after you hit it, all bets are off.
 

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Why would you care? You already nailed her. She's pretty much conquered territory.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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