"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
does the game change after you've already had sex with a girl?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Chickfight
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hmm i can see that. thanks chickfight.Chickfight said:Typically, but not always, once you've had sex with a girl the power shifts to your favor. That's why usually a girl will have to trust you to a certain degree before she'll have sex with you, unless she's drunk or promiscuous. If it's just a regular girl, you no longer have to worry about being persistent as she will definitely come to you. Also, you're allowed to be as sweet as you want to her right after you've had sex. In fact I'd recommend it if you're looking for a relationship.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
fvck, if u have to change after bagging a chic, u'r not only cheating her u'r cheating u'rself...
U should have shuch a strong frame that u don't have to change for anyone, on anyday, at anytime...fvck!!!
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
Pretty much after you hit it, all bets are off.garruk said:after you've already had sex, is there anything you do differently?
i feel like certain sexual tension moves are kinda pointless afterwards? am i wrong?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
This +1 repsearch1ng said:kinda changes, cause now you gotta get the anal