"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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does the game change after you've already had sex with a girl?

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garruk

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after you've already had sex, is there anything you do differently?

i feel like certain sexual tension moves are kinda pointless afterwards? am i wrong?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Typically, but not always, once you've had sex with a girl the power shifts to your favor. That's why usually a girl will have to trust you to a certain degree before she'll have sex with you, unless she's drunk or promiscuous. If it's just a regular girl, you no longer have to worry about being persistent as she will definitely come to you. Also, you're allowed to be as sweet as you want to her right after you've had sex. In fact I'd recommend it if you're looking for a relationship.
 
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Chickfight said:
Typically, but not always, once you've had sex with a girl the power shifts to your favor. That's why usually a girl will have to trust you to a certain degree before she'll have sex with you, unless she's drunk or promiscuous. If it's just a regular girl, you no longer have to worry about being persistent as she will definitely come to you. Also, you're allowed to be as sweet as you want to her right after you've had sex. In fact I'd recommend it if you're looking for a relationship.
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hmm i can see that. thanks chickfight.
 
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I would agree the game does change. The chase is over and you have already crossed that line of sexual tension and awkwardness. It's almost like once you get to that point you can get on with it and it's starts coming more naturally and easier as she will now be more prone to coming to you. Beforehand it's like a game of getting to that point.
 
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i dunno, i feel the game still needs to be there. just not as heavy as before. you still gotta not be needy and always on her ass. like for me, i still need to back off from this girl i'm seeing otherwise i'll send her running. we've had sex plenty times but because of how needy i am, it's not enough and i want her even more now but i force myself to let her be until she comes back for more and she always does eventually. so the games still there but just not as much as in the beginning. the chase is over but you gotta stay cool or you'll lose her :/
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hollysh1t guys, if you have to change anything it means u'r a phony & u'r faking persona just to get her in the bag...

fvck, if u have to change after bagging a chic, u'r not only cheating her u'r cheating u'rself...

U should have shuch a strong frame that u don't have to change for anyone, on anyday, at anytime...fvck!!!
 
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There is a consensus on here that the game in the broader sense of the term should remain same, what you spit out might need to change a little - like the technics, the verbal play, and you might have to show the more vulnerable and sweeter side of you (only a sneak peek, not your whole life story and all the bloody "feelings"). Incougrency does suck in-respect to any person, that's why you should be genuine to begin with. I have a friend like that who is Jackel and Hide kind of persona, needless to say he is no longer a friend, probably never was.
 
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garruk said:
after you've already had sex, is there anything you do differently?

i feel like certain sexual tension moves are kinda pointless afterwards? am i wrong?
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Pretty much after you hit it, all bets are off.
 
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Why would you care? You already nailed her. She's pretty much conquered territory.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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