lizardking82
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I tried searching online for some info but it's unclear.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Does precum contain sperm and is it dangerous for pregnancy?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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americanpregnancy.org/getting-pregnant/can-you-get-pregnant-with-precum/
Might be irrelevant to your question, but has anyone ever told you that you roughly resemble Todd Valentine?
Might be irrelevant to your question, but has anyone ever told you that you roughly resemble Todd Valentine?
wifehunter
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Articles I've read, suggest having a wee first, to clear the line of any baby making material.
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It can.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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If a girl gets pregnant from precum, its only because it was the most determined sperm in existence.
Best thing to do is learn how your orgasms work and how your tool works.
Some guys "seep". The seepers are the ones who have kids now because they get excited enough to *** without orgasm. Test yourself to see if you seep.
Best thing to do is learn how your orgasms work and how your tool works.
Some guys "seep". The seepers are the ones who have kids now because they get excited enough to *** without orgasm. Test yourself to see if you seep.
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It's not dangerous for pregnancy if you want kids and want to pay child support for 18 years.
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No. Now if you came once and are going for the second be sure to pee as you may have some residuals.
If it happens that you masturbated before sex same reasoning apply.
If it happens that you masturbated before sex same reasoning apply.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I read just pre-*** can cause pregnancy. So yeah pulling out is not 100% for sure. And I for one have had really good sex where I can't really tell if i'm having orgasm or not it all just feels so good.
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I saw a tv-series last year about sex where they did several tests with guys and felt confident about precum not being a problem when measuring for seemen, I remember i was surprised.
I would say if you are a normal guy the chance is very small for you to make anyone pregnant precumming. In my life philosophy, if we are already talking about a low chance, we can talk about the chance of a condom getting a very small tare you barely notice and making a woman pregnant, that way must REALLY suck. A college of mine got a woman pregnant like this.
Ofc after you have ejaculated outside thats when I would be worried if you want to go round 2 cause the seemen tends to come out a bit later too, ofc pee first. Or just fuk her for a couple of days and get her the pill at the pharmacy If they have a high interest level they sometimes really want ur seemen inside. Make sure she is a woman who has her life together though, so the chance of her wanting to trick u into becoming a single dad is as low as possible. There is always a chance with sex as we know, but condoms are horrible
I would say if you are a normal guy the chance is very small for you to make anyone pregnant precumming. In my life philosophy, if we are already talking about a low chance, we can talk about the chance of a condom getting a very small tare you barely notice and making a woman pregnant, that way must REALLY suck. A college of mine got a woman pregnant like this.
Ofc after you have ejaculated outside thats when I would be worried if you want to go round 2 cause the seemen tends to come out a bit later too, ofc pee first. Or just fuk her for a couple of days and get her the pill at the pharmacy
If they have a high interest level they sometimes really want ur seemen inside. Make sure she is a woman who has her life together though, so the chance of her wanting to trick u into becoming a single dad is as low as possible. There is always a chance with sex as we know, but condoms are horrible 
Bible_Belt
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Comedian Joe Rogan has a bit about "commando sperm" that are in pre-cvm. That's how he had his daughter, by assuming that pulling out was good enough. It wasn't.
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OP, what's the situation? Pregnancy scare?
lizardking82
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No, but I greatly dislike sex with condom, have not had it in years. I was in a relationship with my ex from September 2014 till October 2016 and she was on the pill so this was never an issue and I got used to cumming inside of her everytime we had sex, no pregnancy happened between those 2 years. Now that we are not together anymore, I had sex with a couple more girls in the mean time and I always did so without a condom. I got no problem at all controlling my ejaculation, I can feel it coming and can pull out well in time, but I notice precum on it all the time and I am just wondering. No current specific situation really, just wanted to push it into the think tank, see what the guys say.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Ok, great to hear you're researching the topic in a preventive mindset--a lot of questions are posted after the fact, so I applaud you for taking the lead.
In college biology, I remember my prof discuss this with us directly following a question from a female student. The prof. said pre-ejaculation DOES contain sperm and that the pull out method is as good as random chance (50/50) or even less successful.
In a society where a woman can control your life, squeeze you financially, and control how much you see your child, I would rather wear a condom and have less sexual satisfaction. Don't get me wrong, I've been with girls who were on birth control and banged them without a condom, but I don't spread my juice inside the cave. It's about peace of mind to me.
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Me too. I can hardly get it up when I see a condom so I almost have no choice
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To balance out, I've never got a girl pregnant from pulling out, but that's not to say it never happens. If you're doing it right, condoms should work the same.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.