lizardking82
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I tried searching online for some info but it's unclear.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OP, what's the situation? Pregnancy scare?I tried searching online for some info but it's unclear.
No, but I greatly dislike sex with condom, have not had it in years. I was in a relationship with my ex from September 2014 till October 2016 and she was on the pill so this was never an issue and I got used to cumming inside of her everytime we had sex, no pregnancy happened between those 2 years. Now that we are not together anymore, I had sex with a couple more girls in the mean time and I always did so without a condom. I got no problem at all controlling my ejaculation, I can feel it coming and can pull out well in time, but I notice precum on it all the time and I am just wondering. No current specific situation really, just wanted to push it into the think tank, see what the guys say.OP, what's the situation? Pregnancy scare?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ok, great to hear you're researching the topic in a preventive mindset--a lot of questions are posted after the fact, so I applaud you for taking the lead.No, but I greatly dislike sex with condom, have not had it in years. I was in a relationship with my ex from September 2014 till October 2016 and she was on the pill so this was never an issue and I got used to cumming inside of her everytime we had sex, no pregnancy happened between those 2 years. Now that we are not together anymore, I had sex with a couple more girls in the mean time and I always did so without a condom. I got no problem at all controlling my ejaculation, I can feel it coming and can pull out well in time, but I notice precum on it all the time and I am just wondering. No current specific situation really, just wanted to push it into the think tank, see what the guys say.
Me too. I can hardly get it up when I see a condom so I almost have no choiceNo, but I greatly dislike sex with condom, have not had it in years. I was in a relationship with my ex from September 2014 till October 2016 and she was on the pill so this was never an issue and I got used to cumming inside of her everytime we had sex, no pregnancy happened between those 2 years. Now that we are not together anymore, I had sex with a couple more girls in the mean time and I always did so without a condom. I got no problem at all controlling my ejaculation, I can feel it coming and can pull out well in time, but I notice precum on it all the time and I am just wondering. No current specific situation really, just wanted to push it into the think tank, see what the guys say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.