"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you think this 47 y.o. virgin will achieve his PUA goals by going back to college & hanging around cool 19 year old men?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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This guy is either a troll or the next spree killer we will see on tv.
 

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He is actually better than a lot of men who give up at 20 year, I feel sorry for him , he said the old woman who touched his hand was the first time a woman touch him in 26 year.
I re-enrolled in college at age of 31, and it wasnt that bad , there was people with us in all the age ranges up to 70 year old,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I hate reading stuff like that.

I know as a well above average guy I have a hard time with women so I can imagine what it's like for a ton of other guys out there. A lot of women are screwed up today, where even a 2/10 land whale feels she is entitled to a gym hunk lol.
 

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I'm in a similar situation as he is, except not nearly as bad. Calling himself "cool smoke" sounds really stupid. Wish him the best of luck.
 

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Whats the "situation"?
 

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He must have been reading some really retro PUA stuff to pick out a code name for himself. "Cool Smoke", I don't know whether to laugh or feel bad for him.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Obviously not. You can't play the "Young card". Are you delusional?
 

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The dude is actually trying to go back and change his life. Kind of like those "If you could go back to being 20, knowing what you know now.." things. Except he's going to stay 47.

Considering how difficult things are likely to be for him, it makes me wonder: Maybe he'd have more luck using his virginity to get himself laid. Surely some sleazy type woman might find it amusing to take pity on him. I know females in general aren't like that, but there might be a freaky girl out there who might get a kick out of it.
 

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He must have been reading some really retro PUA stuff to pick out a code name for himself. "Cool Smoke", I don't know whether to laugh or feel bad for him.
Haha. The PUA code names served two purposes:

1. For fun. To spice up the field reports

2. As a (kind of clever) fake it till you make it confidence tool. You disassociate from your nervous/awkward self and become this new smooth “character” named XYZ. In other words, you become an actor playing a role for the night.

But all that aside, it’s not going to help this guy. He probably looks like Bagelcel and wants to pick up college girls.
 

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I'd like to get other's take on my advice.

If I were him, I would not pretend to be young, but rather act young. I would jack up my hormones in the gym and play some team sports and physically act out like his younger self. I would use his age to his advantage by being the leader of the group. I would be very straight forward and honest in his intentions. I would have fun and not take anything too seriously.
 

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I'd like to get other's take on my advice.

If I were him, I would not pretend to be young, but rather act young. I would jack up my hormones in the gym and play some team sports and physically act out like his younger self. I would use his age to his advantage by being the leader of the group. I would be very straight forward and honest in his intentions. I would have fun and not take anything too seriously.
No the real question is how did he manage to be a virgin at 47.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No the real question is how did he manage to be a virgin at 47.
It's speculation, but my first guess is that he has low T-levels and is also lazy. Maybe he is crippled too, idk.
 

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It's speculation, but my first guess is that he has low T-levels and is also lazy. Maybe he is crippled too, idk.
Or some 18 yr old incel trolling. It's just at 47 your priorities are so different than just chasing skirts. Somethings not right.
 

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Or some 18 yr old incel trolling. It's just at 47 your priorities are so different than just chasing skirts. Somethings not right.
I'm 35 and that's what I'm doing now.

He could be a troll, maybe not
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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