"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you think this 47 y.o. virgin will achieve his PUA goals by going back to college & hanging around cool 19 year old men?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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This guy is either a troll or the next spree killer we will see on tv.
 

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He is actually better than a lot of men who give up at 20 year, I feel sorry for him , he said the old woman who touched his hand was the first time a woman touch him in 26 year.
I re-enrolled in college at age of 31, and it wasnt that bad , there was people with us in all the age ranges up to 70 year old,
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I hate reading stuff like that.

I know as a well above average guy I have a hard time with women so I can imagine what it's like for a ton of other guys out there. A lot of women are screwed up today, where even a 2/10 land whale feels she is entitled to a gym hunk lol.
 

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I'm in a similar situation as he is, except not nearly as bad. Calling himself "cool smoke" sounds really stupid. Wish him the best of luck.
 

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Whats the "situation"?
 

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He must have been reading some really retro PUA stuff to pick out a code name for himself. "Cool Smoke", I don't know whether to laugh or feel bad for him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Obviously not. You can't play the "Young card". Are you delusional?
 

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The dude is actually trying to go back and change his life. Kind of like those "If you could go back to being 20, knowing what you know now.." things. Except he's going to stay 47.

Considering how difficult things are likely to be for him, it makes me wonder: Maybe he'd have more luck using his virginity to get himself laid. Surely some sleazy type woman might find it amusing to take pity on him. I know females in general aren't like that, but there might be a freaky girl out there who might get a kick out of it.
 

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He must have been reading some really retro PUA stuff to pick out a code name for himself. "Cool Smoke", I don't know whether to laugh or feel bad for him.
Haha. The PUA code names served two purposes:

1. For fun. To spice up the field reports

2. As a (kind of clever) fake it till you make it confidence tool. You disassociate from your nervous/awkward self and become this new smooth “character” named XYZ. In other words, you become an actor playing a role for the night.

But all that aside, it’s not going to help this guy. He probably looks like Bagelcel and wants to pick up college girls.
 

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I'd like to get other's take on my advice.

If I were him, I would not pretend to be young, but rather act young. I would jack up my hormones in the gym and play some team sports and physically act out like his younger self. I would use his age to his advantage by being the leader of the group. I would be very straight forward and honest in his intentions. I would have fun and not take anything too seriously.
 

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I'd like to get other's take on my advice.

If I were him, I would not pretend to be young, but rather act young. I would jack up my hormones in the gym and play some team sports and physically act out like his younger self. I would use his age to his advantage by being the leader of the group. I would be very straight forward and honest in his intentions. I would have fun and not take anything too seriously.
No the real question is how did he manage to be a virgin at 47.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No the real question is how did he manage to be a virgin at 47.
It's speculation, but my first guess is that he has low T-levels and is also lazy. Maybe he is crippled too, idk.
 

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It's speculation, but my first guess is that he has low T-levels and is also lazy. Maybe he is crippled too, idk.
Or some 18 yr old incel trolling. It's just at 47 your priorities are so different than just chasing skirts. Somethings not right.
 

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Or some 18 yr old incel trolling. It's just at 47 your priorities are so different than just chasing skirts. Somethings not right.
I'm 35 and that's what I'm doing now.

He could be a troll, maybe not
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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