"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do you hit on UGs?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Fenderules
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cactus3178
Senior Don Juan
Took the words out of my mouth. C&F to every chick I meet, and those I already know.
Unfortunately, it's netted me some undesireable consequences as well....I had one chick tell some people at her work (where I know alot of people) that she wanted to marry me (never even done anything with her), and then had her tell me that she'd "make a way better GF" than my current FB.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thing is, it is hard for me to fake interest in UGs though so it sucks.
You can't choose who you are attracted to and it's not your duty to make people feel good about themselves. But there's nothing stopping you from being their friend.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Precisely. Let's take a scenario... You've been hitting on UG's for a long time, and you've finally gotten this awesome looking girl that you're working on getting in bed. You're on a date with her when out of nowhere this hideous montrosity of a female comes up and accosts you. "After the first week, you never called me back! Now I see why! You've got some barbie doll girl that you want more than you wanted me! Well just wait, you'll come back when you realize I've got the good stuff!!!". The HB you were with re-evaluates you entirely... now, instead of being some suave, charming guy, you're a loser so desperate he has to hit on repulsive women. I don't know about you, but if I were her I wouldn't want anything to do with you after that. You'd be NEXT'd!
Sorry, but my dignity isn't worth it - I'll keep on not hitting on ugly girls. If that's what works for you... go right ahead.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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A lot of people say the reason why I haven't had a serious relationship is that my standards are too high, and that rather than going for good looking girls, I should settle for a less good looking girl. My response is that I would rather be single, than in a relationship with a girl that I am not physically attracted to. I have quite high visual standarads, and that is a strong incentive for me to improve my game and do my best to better myself. Most people when in a relationship tend to get comfortable and stop working on themselves.
johnny_chase
Don Juan
I think you have to differentiate between hitting on girls and just being a pleasant, cool, fun guy to be around. Now, if you're sending signals to these girls and you have no intentions of doing anything with them, that's mean by stringing them along like that. But if you're just being yourself, saying funny **** all the time, of course the "ugs" around are going to be interested, but so will the hotties.
Being C&F does not mean you're hitting on someone.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
As well nothing good will come of it. Hitting on UglyGirls will not gradually help you to be better with hitting on Hot Babes, its like swimming you won't learn how to swim if you practice in a swamp as oppose to the ocean.
Its better to fail hitting on a Hot Babe, then to succeed hitting on an Ugly Chick. You will learn better from the rejection and the faliure then your pathetic success.
But if Ugly girls is your thing, then don't let anyone stop you!
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
Best answer yet.
Haha! Is this a personal experience? Sounds like a bad situation or a bad dream.
Incidentally, why do ugly women always use the "barbie doll" comparison towards any slim, attractive woman like it's an insult? Barbie's hot!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.