"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you have a crush on me?

PeterCrouch

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good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?


"...and you are...?" *hold out hand for handshake*
 

PeterCrouch

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No if its from a girl you know silly!

Also "would you kiss me?" and "give me a nickname!"
 

PeterCrouch

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What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
 

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Just say shut the **** up and kiss her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"maybe"
"wouldn't you like to know!"
"It depends...do you [insert criteria to match here]"
 

simon

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
"****able"
 

PeterCrouch

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If a girl starts teasing ya about you fancying them saying like "ha you fancy me, i know it, you know it, you fancy me ha" and there a bit of a aw what should ya say?

describe me in one word im gonna reply buy saying ****able which is good but what about do you fancy me or teasing coz i really need a good reply for these!

if im in person ill go for the kiss but sometimes ppl ask me on messenger or texting or on the fone so what should i say then?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flyer

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As a general rule, I try to avoid im/texting with girls whom I'm gaming..
 

PeterCrouch

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why? and what country do you live in?

coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
 

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Texting is the fast track to isolation and social anxiety.

Her: do you fancy me?
You: Mmmmm MAKE ME

Her: describe me in one word?
You: Nympho

The other night:
Her:You love me
Me:Hmmm
Her:All the guys i talk to love me
Me:You give your self to much credit

Ninja out
 

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coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
Speaking as an Englishman, I disagree.

There is no substitute for meeting in person. People can put up a front when they have a screen/phone to hide behind.
 

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PeterCrouch
texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever

texting is evil

msn messenger is almost as bad

both of them give women a huge buffer with which to flake from behind

AFCs love both because they lack the courage to run game on women face to face or run game over the phone


a woman cannot keep a phone call and show people what she talked about

a woman can show her friend betty a text message / sms and refer to it out of context

THIS HAPPENS ALOT


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Depends on the situation. The available answers are too subjective to provide one which will work in all situations. The best thing to convey is that you do "have a crush", but not say you do.

words = weak
actions = strong
 

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If she's asking you if you have a crush on her it's likely you were acting a little chumpish to begin with.....or she justloves exert her power, in this case a neg hit is preferable
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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