"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you have a crush on me?

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brenbaus

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I ususally say "I might, but Im not going to tell you"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Q-unit nailed it. It is all about sending mixed messages:
You SHOW her you might like her with your actions
But you don't ever tell her directly.... your words should keep her wondering

It is like with coc-ky funny: you always talk to her like you are the motherfuggin boss, with a lot of humor thrown in so you aren't just a jerk.... but with your actions you show her you're really a good guy.

If a girl asks me if I like her I would say: "not particularly, but there's always time for me to change my mind"

or you might dodge the question for fun and say: "yeah, you're a good friend" and drop the friend-bomb on her ass...powerful

or: "no, I only like nice girls"
or: "does it matter?" "you like me one way or the other anyway"

don't actually tell her you like her, that is almost never a good idea.... takes away challenge, mystery, anticipation, and many other things that cause her to be attracted to you.
 
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