"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do you have a crush on me?

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good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?


"...and you are...?" *hold out hand for handshake*
 

PeterCrouch

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No if its from a girl you know silly!

Also "would you kiss me?" and "give me a nickname!"
 

PeterCrouch

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What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
 

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Just say shut the **** up and kiss her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"maybe"
"wouldn't you like to know!"
"It depends...do you [insert criteria to match here]"
 

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
"****able"
 

PeterCrouch

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If a girl starts teasing ya about you fancying them saying like "ha you fancy me, i know it, you know it, you fancy me ha" and there a bit of a aw what should ya say?

describe me in one word im gonna reply buy saying ****able which is good but what about do you fancy me or teasing coz i really need a good reply for these!

if im in person ill go for the kiss but sometimes ppl ask me on messenger or texting or on the fone so what should i say then?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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As a general rule, I try to avoid im/texting with girls whom I'm gaming..
 

PeterCrouch

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why? and what country do you live in?

coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
 

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Texting is the fast track to isolation and social anxiety.

Her: do you fancy me?
You: Mmmmm MAKE ME

Her: describe me in one word?
You: Nympho

The other night:
Her:You love me
Me:Hmmm
Her:All the guys i talk to love me
Me:You give your self to much credit

Ninja out
 

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coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
Speaking as an Englishman, I disagree.

There is no substitute for meeting in person. People can put up a front when they have a screen/phone to hide behind.
 

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PeterCrouch
texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever

texting is evil

msn messenger is almost as bad

both of them give women a huge buffer with which to flake from behind

AFCs love both because they lack the courage to run game on women face to face or run game over the phone


a woman cannot keep a phone call and show people what she talked about

a woman can show her friend betty a text message / sms and refer to it out of context

THIS HAPPENS ALOT


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Depends on the situation. The available answers are too subjective to provide one which will work in all situations. The best thing to convey is that you do "have a crush", but not say you do.

words = weak
actions = strong
 

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If she's asking you if you have a crush on her it's likely you were acting a little chumpish to begin with.....or she justloves exert her power, in this case a neg hit is preferable
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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