PeterCrouch
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good replys to this question please!
or do you fancy me?
and do you love me?
or do you fancy me?
and do you love me?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Do you have a crush on me?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PeterCrouch
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No if its from a girl you know silly!
Also "would you kiss me?" and "give me a nickname!"
Also "would you kiss me?" and "give me a nickname!"
PeterCrouch
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What about "describe me in one word"
i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
naoi deag se deag
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That's a good one. I say "No, I hate you" usually or just tell them to shut up.
Big Eee Zee
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"****able"
:crackup:
:crackup:
PeterCrouch
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If a girl starts teasing ya about you fancying them saying like "ha you fancy me, i know it, you know it, you fancy me ha" and there a bit of a aw what should ya say?
describe me in one word im gonna reply buy saying ****able which is good but what about do you fancy me or teasing coz i really need a good reply for these!
if im in person ill go for the kiss but sometimes ppl ask me on messenger or texting or on the fone so what should i say then?
describe me in one word im gonna reply buy saying ****able which is good but what about do you fancy me or teasing coz i really need a good reply for these!
if im in person ill go for the kiss but sometimes ppl ask me on messenger or texting or on the fone so what should i say then?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PeterCrouch
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why? and what country do you live in?
coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
Black_Italian
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Texting is the fast track to isolation and social anxiety.
Her: do you fancy me?
You: Mmmmm MAKE ME
Her: describe me in one word?
You: Nympho
The other night:
Her:You love me
Me:Hmmm
Her:All the guys i talk to love me
Me:You give your self to much credit
Ninja out
Her: do you fancy me?
You: Mmmmm MAKE ME
Her: describe me in one word?
You: Nympho
The other night:
Her:You love me
Me:Hmmm
Her:All the guys i talk to love me
Me:You give your self to much credit
Ninja out
Hound_of_Love
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Speaking as an Englishman, I disagree.
There is no substitute for meeting in person. People can put up a front when they have a screen/phone to hide behind.
Lost In Translation
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PeterCrouch
texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever
texting is evil
msn messenger is almost as bad
both of them give women a huge buffer with which to flake from behind
AFCs love both because they lack the courage to run game on women face to face or run game over the phone
a woman cannot keep a phone call and show people what she talked about
a woman can show her friend betty a text message / sms and refer to it out of context
THIS HAPPENS ALOT
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever
texting is evil
msn messenger is almost as bad
both of them give women a huge buffer with which to flake from behind
AFCs love both because they lack the courage to run game on women face to face or run game over the phone
a woman cannot keep a phone call and show people what she talked about
a woman can show her friend betty a text message / sms and refer to it out of context
THIS HAPPENS ALOT
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
RedNinjaWarrior
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yes women have phones.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I love you too, IN THOSE JEANS.
Depends on the situation. The available answers are too subjective to provide one which will work in all situations. The best thing to convey is that you do "have a crush", but not say you do.
words = weak
actions = strong
words = weak
actions = strong
TillTheEndOfTime
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Stop phishing for compliments.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
If she's asking you if you have a crush on her it's likely you were acting a little chumpish to begin with.....or she justloves exert her power, in this case a neg hit is preferable
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.