"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you have a crush on me?

PeterCrouch

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good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrRuckus

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?


"...and you are...?" *hold out hand for handshake*
 

PeterCrouch

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No if its from a girl you know silly!

Also "would you kiss me?" and "give me a nickname!"
 

PeterCrouch

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What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
 

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Just say shut the **** up and kiss her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"maybe"
"wouldn't you like to know!"
"It depends...do you [insert criteria to match here]"
 

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
"****able"
 

PeterCrouch

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If a girl starts teasing ya about you fancying them saying like "ha you fancy me, i know it, you know it, you fancy me ha" and there a bit of a aw what should ya say?

describe me in one word im gonna reply buy saying ****able which is good but what about do you fancy me or teasing coz i really need a good reply for these!

if im in person ill go for the kiss but sometimes ppl ask me on messenger or texting or on the fone so what should i say then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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As a general rule, I try to avoid im/texting with girls whom I'm gaming..
 

PeterCrouch

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why? and what country do you live in?

coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
 

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Texting is the fast track to isolation and social anxiety.

Her: do you fancy me?
You: Mmmmm MAKE ME

Her: describe me in one word?
You: Nympho

The other night:
Her:You love me
Me:Hmmm
Her:All the guys i talk to love me
Me:You give your self to much credit

Ninja out
 

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coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
Speaking as an Englishman, I disagree.

There is no substitute for meeting in person. People can put up a front when they have a screen/phone to hide behind.
 

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PeterCrouch
texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever

texting is evil

msn messenger is almost as bad

both of them give women a huge buffer with which to flake from behind

AFCs love both because they lack the courage to run game on women face to face or run game over the phone


a woman cannot keep a phone call and show people what she talked about

a woman can show her friend betty a text message / sms and refer to it out of context

THIS HAPPENS ALOT


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depends on the situation. The available answers are too subjective to provide one which will work in all situations. The best thing to convey is that you do "have a crush", but not say you do.

words = weak
actions = strong
 

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If she's asking you if you have a crush on her it's likely you were acting a little chumpish to begin with.....or she justloves exert her power, in this case a neg hit is preferable
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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