"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you have a crush on me?

PeterCrouch

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good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrRuckus

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
good replys to this question please!

or do you fancy me?

and do you love me?


"...and you are...?" *hold out hand for handshake*
 

PeterCrouch

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No if its from a girl you know silly!

Also "would you kiss me?" and "give me a nickname!"
 

PeterCrouch

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What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
 

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Just say shut the **** up and kiss her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"maybe"
"wouldn't you like to know!"
"It depends...do you [insert criteria to match here]"
 

simon

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
What about "describe me in one word"

i get alot of these type of questions from girls!
"****able"
 

PeterCrouch

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If a girl starts teasing ya about you fancying them saying like "ha you fancy me, i know it, you know it, you fancy me ha" and there a bit of a aw what should ya say?

describe me in one word im gonna reply buy saying ****able which is good but what about do you fancy me or teasing coz i really need a good reply for these!

if im in person ill go for the kiss but sometimes ppl ask me on messenger or texting or on the fone so what should i say then?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As a general rule, I try to avoid im/texting with girls whom I'm gaming..
 

PeterCrouch

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why? and what country do you live in?

coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
 

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Texting is the fast track to isolation and social anxiety.

Her: do you fancy me?
You: Mmmmm MAKE ME

Her: describe me in one word?
You: Nympho

The other night:
Her:You love me
Me:Hmmm
Her:All the guys i talk to love me
Me:You give your self to much credit

Ninja out
 

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coz in england, texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever!
Speaking as an Englishman, I disagree.

There is no substitute for meeting in person. People can put up a front when they have a screen/phone to hide behind.
 

Lost In Translation

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PeterCrouch
texting is the way forward! and msn is the greatest thing invented ever

texting is evil

msn messenger is almost as bad

both of them give women a huge buffer with which to flake from behind

AFCs love both because they lack the courage to run game on women face to face or run game over the phone


a woman cannot keep a phone call and show people what she talked about

a woman can show her friend betty a text message / sms and refer to it out of context

THIS HAPPENS ALOT


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on the situation. The available answers are too subjective to provide one which will work in all situations. The best thing to convey is that you do "have a crush", but not say you do.

words = weak
actions = strong
 

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If she's asking you if you have a crush on her it's likely you were acting a little chumpish to begin with.....or she justloves exert her power, in this case a neg hit is preferable
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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