I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Blah blah blah the USA sucks blah Europe is so much better blah blah blah American guys are gay. That is ALL you ever say. You are without a doubt a troll of mega proportions living in your parents basement in Topeka Kansas and this was proven in your recent threads where not only did you admit to liking gay dances and men in Europe, but you were totally punked on talking about staying at a hotel In Ukraine that doesn't even exist.BigJimbo said:Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.
See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.
Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
I'd like to see more info on this, especially the Topeka Kansas thing.cordoncordon said:Blah blah blah the USA sucks blah Europe is so much better blah blah blah American guys are gay. That is ALL you ever say. You are without a doubt a troll of mega proportions living in your parents basement in Topeka Kansas and this was proven in your recent threads where not only did you admit to liking gay dances and men in Europe, but you were totally punked on talking about staying at a hotel In Ukraine that doesn't even exist.
That works both ways then. Which means, being straight really means TOTALLY straight! Which is in fact true, as there have has been scientific research done to this. Most people have some form of bisexuality or bicuriosity in them. You probably totally want a d*ck up your.BigJimbo said:Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Just decided to go all out this time, huh Jimmy? Might as well, right? I mean, if they won't take you out for some of the racist garbage you posted here you might as well just hit the crackpipe and post whatever the hell you feel like trollin' today, I guess. I wonder what you look like...I'm almost positive you're a fat guy, for sure. I'm envisioning a grease-stained wifebeater for some reason. If I was a betting man, I'd probably have to say you either live in Louisiana or Utah or some place like that. It would be perfect irony, considering your obsession with the Ukraine.BigJimbo said:Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.
See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.
Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
its funny guys cant take his trolling.... is a nice departure from the whinging here and retarded threads like this oneKerpal said:Yes BigJimbo is a troll, but a hilarious one :crackup:
I'm with cordoncordon and Just A Shot Away. What's your freekin problem man? Every other post you put up on here you bash and belittle Americans. Granted there are messed up people in every country. I'm sure there are F'd up people in whatever country you are from, even if it's your mommies house in Topeka, KS. You should be banned for being a F'n troll.BigJimbo said:Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.
See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.
Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.