That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Blah blah blah the USA sucks blah Europe is so much better blah blah blah American guys are gay. That is ALL you ever say. You are without a doubt a troll of mega proportions living in your parents basement in Topeka Kansas and this was proven in your recent threads where not only did you admit to liking gay dances and men in Europe, but you were totally punked on talking about staying at a hotel In Ukraine that doesn't even exist.BigJimbo said:Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.
See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.
Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
I'd like to see more info on this, especially the Topeka Kansas thing.cordoncordon said:Blah blah blah the USA sucks blah Europe is so much better blah blah blah American guys are gay. That is ALL you ever say. You are without a doubt a troll of mega proportions living in your parents basement in Topeka Kansas and this was proven in your recent threads where not only did you admit to liking gay dances and men in Europe, but you were totally punked on talking about staying at a hotel In Ukraine that doesn't even exist.
That works both ways then. Which means, being straight really means TOTALLY straight! Which is in fact true, as there have has been scientific research done to this. Most people have some form of bisexuality or bicuriosity in them. You probably totally want a d*ck up your.BigJimbo said:Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Just decided to go all out this time, huh Jimmy? Might as well, right? I mean, if they won't take you out for some of the racist garbage you posted here you might as well just hit the crackpipe and post whatever the hell you feel like trollin' today, I guess. I wonder what you look like...I'm almost positive you're a fat guy, for sure. I'm envisioning a grease-stained wifebeater for some reason. If I was a betting man, I'd probably have to say you either live in Louisiana or Utah or some place like that. It would be perfect irony, considering your obsession with the Ukraine.BigJimbo said:Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.
See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.
Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
its funny guys cant take his trolling.... is a nice departure from the whinging here and retarded threads like this oneKerpal said:Yes BigJimbo is a troll, but a hilarious one :crackup:
I'm with cordoncordon and Just A Shot Away. What's your freekin problem man? Every other post you put up on here you bash and belittle Americans. Granted there are messed up people in every country. I'm sure there are F'd up people in whatever country you are from, even if it's your mommies house in Topeka, KS. You should be banned for being a F'n troll.BigJimbo said:Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.
See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.
Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.