"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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do you guys hug girls?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't greet them with hugs, but I do give hugs sometimes.
 

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I've always been a special occasion hugger. If I see her every day at school, I'm not going to give her a hug. But if we see each other in a unique situation, then I go for the hug.

Mostly though, it's about the conetxt of our "relationship" and what the circumstances of our meeting is.
 

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yes hug every girl you meet. It sets the tone for you entire relationship by letting her know you naturally are physically affectionate. Also, girls are rendered weaponless if you take away their weapon the hug. Girls use hugs to get guys crazy for them. As guys, guys think that when a girl hugs them, that the hug means that the girl has a thing for them. But when you hug them first, then you get them wondering "does he like me?"
Also hugs are an easy way to build rapport with a girl. It confuses her mind into thinking she either has known you for a long time or that she is comfortable with you.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.

See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.

My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.

Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
 

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BigJimbo said:
Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.

See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.

My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.

Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
Blah blah blah the USA sucks blah Europe is so much better blah blah blah American guys are gay. That is ALL you ever say. You are without a doubt a troll of mega proportions living in your parents basement in Topeka Kansas and this was proven in your recent threads where not only did you admit to liking gay dances and men in Europe, but you were totally punked on talking about staying at a hotel In Ukraine that doesn't even exist.
 

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cordoncordon said:
Blah blah blah the USA sucks blah Europe is so much better blah blah blah American guys are gay. That is ALL you ever say. You are without a doubt a troll of mega proportions living in your parents basement in Topeka Kansas and this was proven in your recent threads where not only did you admit to liking gay dances and men in Europe, but you were totally punked on talking about staying at a hotel In Ukraine that doesn't even exist.
I'd like to see more info on this, especially the Topeka Kansas thing.

Haha! Pennsylvania is a pretty boring state but at least I don't live in Kansas. Boy would that suck.
 

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I hug almost everyone I meet, including guys. I, however, have a manhug, which is used to display friendship towards other males, and I only use it on people I do see as friends, and with most girls, I kiss'n'hug, even if they're less familiar. I have a f*ckton of acquaintances that actually expect to receive a hug and a kiss and move in to get it. Social proof b*tch!

BigJimbo said:
Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.
That works both ways then. Which means, being straight really means TOTALLY straight! Which is in fact true, as there have has been scientific research done to this. Most people have some form of bisexuality or bicuriosity in them. You probably totally want a d*ck up your.
 

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Yeah, all the time. Depending on how comfortable I am with a girl, I'll even do kisses.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BigJimbo said:
Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.

See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.

My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.

Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
Just decided to go all out this time, huh Jimmy? Might as well, right? I mean, if they won't take you out for some of the racist garbage you posted here you might as well just hit the crackpipe and post whatever the hell you feel like trollin' today, I guess. I wonder what you look like...I'm almost positive you're a fat guy, for sure. I'm envisioning a grease-stained wifebeater for some reason. If I was a betting man, I'd probably have to say you either live in Louisiana or Utah or some place like that. It would be perfect irony, considering your obsession with the Ukraine.
 

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Kerpal said:
Yes BigJimbo is a troll, but a hilarious one :crackup:
its funny guys cant take his trolling.... is a nice departure from the whinging here and retarded threads like this one
 

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Where I live guys don't hug random girls.
There is one gay guy I know who hugs girls all the time.
And one other guy who tries to hug girls but he is seen as a major creeper.
I think this depends on the culture of the area where you live.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Of course most American boys do. They are more feminine than the girls.

See, if I wanted the typical fat girl in America (hb9). I would act totally gay. Here is a secret about the lards that you boys worship - THEY SLEEP WITH THEIR GAY FRIENDS. It is a fact. Gay guys like to bang as much as you do. They will bang a hole in the wall if they must (just like you did earlier today). Being gay RARELY means being TOTALLY gay. I suspect that most gay men go on to get married and have families. So just remember that.

My advice for you is to go GAY. Be gay. Act gay. I am sure some flubber will eventually sleep with you when she is lonely and needs affection. You needn't sleep with males. Just adopt the gay man's lifestyle. Go get a job as a barista at Starbucks. God knows there is nothing rarer than a straight man who works at Starbucks.

Seriously. If Shamoo has a "gay" guy over at 11pm and she has a glass of wine and is lonely...uh...what do you think is going to happen?
I'm with cordoncordon and Just A Shot Away. What's your freekin problem man? Every other post you put up on here you bash and belittle Americans. Granted there are messed up people in every country. I'm sure there are F'd up people in whatever country you are from, even if it's your mommies house in Topeka, KS. You should be banned for being a F'n troll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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