Tyzef
Don Juan
I know I'm a little bit late but I really want to join this BC, I'm ready. And it's the late starters BC ....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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DOH I just made a thread for this lol Ill stick with the A team instead
GaryUranga
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jossy get a lifeTeh_Wolf said:yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each otherlike BC finals
btw theres a guy whos location is ethiopia, is that real? "Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tightness! I'm in!
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Question!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Were not,
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
bassfiend86
Don Juan
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hey guys i want to join up. i been meaning to do this for a while since i started noticing how bad i was turning out in social events.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
John_anthony
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Count me Evo
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Hey lads
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
Final Roster:
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
godofanxiety
Don Juan
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I think you forgot to put me on the list. I explicitly applied. Unless you have some sort of criteria I don't match, hm?
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
How can you seriously count how many minutes of EC?
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
Tyzef
Don Juan
If I go to a shop and say "Hi" to the seller, does it count?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.