Tyzef
Don Juan
I know I'm a little bit late but I really want to join this BC, I'm ready. And it's the late starters BC ....
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GaryUranga
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DOH I just made a thread for this lol Ill stick with the A team instead
GaryUranga
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jossy get a lifeTeh_Wolf said:yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each otherlike BC finals
btw theres a guy whos location is ethiopia, is that real? "How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tightness! I'm in!
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Question!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Were not,
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
bassfiend86
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hey guys i want to join up. i been meaning to do this for a while since i started noticing how bad i was turning out in social events.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
John_anthony
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Count me Evo
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Hey lads
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
Final Roster:
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
godofanxiety
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I think you forgot to put me on the list. I explicitly applied. Unless you have some sort of criteria I don't match, hm?
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
How can you seriously count how many minutes of EC?
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
Tyzef
Don Juan
If I go to a shop and say "Hi" to the seller, does it count?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.