Tyzef
Don Juan
I know I'm a little bit late but I really want to join this BC, I'm ready. And it's the late starters BC ....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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DOH I just made a thread for this lol Ill stick with the A team instead
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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jossy get a lifeTeh_Wolf said:yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each otherlike BC finals
btw theres a guy whos location is ethiopia, is that real? "She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Tightness! I'm in!
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Question!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Were not,
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
bassfiend86
Don Juan
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hey guys i want to join up. i been meaning to do this for a while since i started noticing how bad i was turning out in social events.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
John_anthony
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Count me Evo
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Hey lads
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
Final Roster:
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
godofanxiety
Don Juan
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I think you forgot to put me on the list. I explicitly applied. Unless you have some sort of criteria I don't match, hm?
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
How can you seriously count how many minutes of EC?
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
Tyzef
Don Juan
If I go to a shop and say "Hi" to the seller, does it count?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.