Tyzef
Don Juan
I know I'm a little bit late but I really want to join this BC, I'm ready. And it's the late starters BC ....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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DOH I just made a thread for this lol Ill stick with the A team instead
GaryUranga
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jossy get a lifeTeh_Wolf said:yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each otherlike BC finals
btw theres a guy whos location is ethiopia, is that real? "The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tightness! I'm in!
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Question!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
Are we competing against the other teams?
and if yes, we need a mascot or color!
GaryUranga
Master Don Juan
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Were not,
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
bassfiend86
Don Juan
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hey guys i want to join up. i been meaning to do this for a while since i started noticing how bad i was turning out in social events.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
John_anthony
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Count me Evo
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
Hey lads
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
I didn't do much today since I had stuff to take care of at home
I'll make up for it later this week tho
Final Roster:
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
?. n00bPimp
?. Dole
?. Evolution
?. redspicyflag
?. Teh_Wolf
?. Cry For Love
?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety
Signups are now *closed*!
DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!
Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
godofanxiety
Don Juan
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I think you forgot to put me on the list. I explicitly applied. Unless you have some sort of criteria I don't match, hm?
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
How can you seriously count how many minutes of EC?
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
So far today, I've got about 7 hi's or acknowledgements
woo hoo
Tyzef
Don Juan
If I go to a shop and say "Hi" to the seller, does it count?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.