"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)

Tyzef

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I know I'm a little bit late but I really want to join this BC, I'm ready. And it's the late starters BC ....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GaryUranga

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Teh_Wolf said:
yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each other :p like BC finals
jossy get a life :p btw theres a guy whos location is ethiopia, is that real? :p
 

Evolution

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Temporary Roster: 5/25/08

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?. Teh_Wolf
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?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hyphy101

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Tightness! I'm in!
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
 

GaryUranga

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Were not,

its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
 

bassfiend86

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hey guys i want to join up. i been meaning to do this for a while since i started noticing how bad i was turning out in social events.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Teh_Wolf

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Week 1 Day 1

Well i hit the river in a cannoe today so just did eye contact with fishermen and people in boats. wasnt really counting but said hey to 10-15 people but ill just call it 10
 

Evolution

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Final Roster:

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?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety

Signups are now *closed*!

DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!

Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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godofanxiety

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I think you forgot to put me on the list. I explicitly applied. Unless you have some sort of criteria I don't match, hm?
 

Teh_Wolf

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I rate it does Tyzef. I notice alot people dont do that and I also used to not do it.

I went out to check out an archery range for a couple minutes, 5 greetings for yesterday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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