"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJBC- A-TEAM (Late Starters)

Tyzef

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I know I'm a little bit late but I really want to join this BC, I'm ready. And it's the late starters BC ....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GaryUranga

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Teh_Wolf said:
yeah man that sounds good. You dont mind us using your good idea (unless that was sarcasm), I rate we see how many people sign up and just do a seperate one. Maybe we can set up a competition for the winning teams of each boot camp to take on against each other :p like BC finals
jossy get a life :p btw theres a guy whos location is ethiopia, is that real? :p
 

Evolution

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Temporary Roster: 5/25/08

?. n00bPimp
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?. GaryUranga
?. Rise.
?. Tyzef
?. hyphy101
?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hyphy101

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Tightness! I'm in!
Ok I found this site like 2 weeks ago and have been studying the dj bible ever since. I'm pretty good at approaches, am pretty talkative and have pretty good social proof in high school. Its just that I've never really tried that hard or gone very far with a girl. I've never really had a serious relationship and just want to be prepared essentially. btw check out my little introductory post in the highschool forum for any other info.
 

GaryUranga

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Were not,

its 11:08am on day 1 and Ive done eye contact through the mosrning and said his to 6 randoms already, had a 10 min convo with an acquaince girl, a convo with a couple (bf-gf) and a convo with some random dude on the elevator, so far so good
 

bassfiend86

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hey guys i want to join up. i been meaning to do this for a while since i started noticing how bad i was turning out in social events.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Teh_Wolf

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Week 1 Day 1

Well i hit the river in a cannoe today so just did eye contact with fishermen and people in boats. wasnt really counting but said hey to 10-15 people but ill just call it 10
 

Evolution

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Final Roster:

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?. John_anthony
?. AJTD
?. godofanxiety

Signups are now *closed*!

DJBC Week 1 is now active as of 5/26/08-6/2/08!

Goodluck DJ's and don't forget to log your progress with a journal, and post your results at the end of the week.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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godofanxiety

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I think you forgot to put me on the list. I explicitly applied. Unless you have some sort of criteria I don't match, hm?
 

Teh_Wolf

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Week 1 Day 2 15/50 (yesterday)

I rate it does Tyzef. I notice alot people dont do that and I also used to not do it.

I went out to check out an archery range for a couple minutes, 5 greetings for yesterday.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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