MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Whats the best and beneficial phrase to use when asking a girl for her identification. WHATS YOUR DIGITS or WHATS YOUR NUMBER. Not necessarily like that, but out of the two words,which is more appropriate?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
DIGITS or NUMBER?
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Scars
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I used to use "digits" until a girl looked at me like I was retarded and was like "huh"? Numbers is more direct and what I usually use today, it cuts through the bullsh!t of a girl being like "Huh, digits? What's that? LOL" cause I've actually had girls act like that.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Naw dude, I need more votes on this one! DIGITS sounds abit more upto date or different,THAN "NUMBERS".Scars said:
OFF TOPIC, what about asking for EMAIL /HOTMAIL (UK)? instead of phone number/ digits.
ANYWAY, votes on NUMBER or DIGITS? ....
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Don Juan
EPIC FAILomega05 said:
Lol
DJ Miquelo
Don Juan
i stick with 'number' personally.
You should add a poll to this btw if u want a numerical result.
You should add a poll to this btw if u want a numerical result.
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MAN_OF_TOMMOROW said:
Neither. When you ask for her number, regardless of how you say it, alarm bells will go off in her head that you're trying to pick her up. Instead try this...
"What's a good way of keeping in touch?"
Now she's offering up a way to keep in contact, so in her mind it's HER idea to give you her number. It's a tiny little psychological tweak that makes a huge impact. And don't worry if she gives you an email address or her Facebook info. For one thing a close is still a close. Second of all FB is now the best close you can get, so going straight for the number can hurt your chances actually.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
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Nutz said:
BRILLIANT.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Oh yeah Cuzza,cuzza said:
I am from the UK, "London" and DIGITS is widely used. Moreso,AFCs tho.
ariet
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Number for sure
unless she said digits before
you may use it
but honestly doesnt matter at all does it? (exeption is when someone ask you what you were doing never say CHILAXING brah)
unless she said digits before
you may use it
but honestly doesnt matter at all does it? (exeption is when someone ask you what you were doing never say CHILAXING brah)
She_feelin_Me
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Number
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It's focusing on small details like this that f*ck up a mans game.
Doesn't matter bro.
Doesn't matter bro.
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Goldenboy25 said:
Correction: it's NOT paying attention to details such as this that can frak up your game. Blatantly asking for her number can set off red flags and make it feel like a pickup. If you were going indirect that's going to really work against you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I'm not advocating/debating the issue of whether or not a man should ask for a womans number/digits.Nutz said:
I'm simply saying the details^ of such an approach are irrelevant, and focusing on them WILL mess with your head.
If she don't want your number then she don't want it
you can make it sound as "Indirect" as possible, but if the chick don't like you then she could give a rat ass to contact you later
small crap like this does fvck up game
just do what comes natural and stop obsessing over **** like this
I've gotten chicks by saying **** like
"aay girl let me get that monkey" and it worked
you can make it sound as "Indirect" as possible, but if the chick don't like you then she could give a rat ass to contact you later
small crap like this does fvck up game
just do what comes natural and stop obsessing over **** like this
I've gotten chicks by saying **** like
"aay girl let me get that monkey" and it worked
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Why isit, when in TIPS there is always some yada yada on things and someone says its "IRRELEVANT" This is why its posted in this section of the forum dude.
Your opinion is welcomed, but saying its irrelevant is just tooting your own horn. I was watching a few vids of ALEX from SucceedAtDating.com and he said "Never ask directly for the number....always use DIGITS.." So I was curious as to know what the opinions where on that.
Easy, peasy lemon squeasy's. No debate on it. Just opionions. Oh yeah this is definetly not f u c k i n g MY GAME up. My whole approach in itself determines whether I follow through with my targets number, not by two words. But like NUTZ said, I might start using NEITHER and see how that method works in my liking. If you're approaching OFTEN, like me, then it shouldnt be a problem to try out new methods? surely?
Your opinion is welcomed, but saying its irrelevant is just tooting your own horn. I was watching a few vids of ALEX from SucceedAtDating.com and he said "Never ask directly for the number....always use DIGITS.." So I was curious as to know what the opinions where on that.
Easy, peasy lemon squeasy's. No debate on it. Just opionions.
Oh yeah this is definetly not f u c k i n g MY GAME up. My whole approach in itself determines whether I follow through with my targets number, not by two words. But like NUTZ said, I might start using NEITHER and see how that method works in my liking. If you're approaching OFTEN, like me, then it shouldnt be a problem to try out new methods? surely?Cassanova_Child
Don Juan
changing one word isnt a new method my friend, I'm sorry to tell you.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Method as in "Whats a good way of keeping in touch" read what I wrote Cas.Cassanova_Child said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.