MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Whats the best and beneficial phrase to use when asking a girl for her identification. WHATS YOUR DIGITS or WHATS YOUR NUMBER. Not necessarily like that, but out of the two words,which is more appropriate?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DIGITS or NUMBER?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scars
Master Don Juan
I used to use "digits" until a girl looked at me like I was retarded and was like "huh"? Numbers is more direct and what I usually use today, it cuts through the bullsh!t of a girl being like "Huh, digits? What's that? LOL" cause I've actually had girls act like that.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Naw dude, I need more votes on this one! DIGITS sounds abit more upto date or different,THAN "NUMBERS".Scars said:
OFF TOPIC, what about asking for EMAIL /HOTMAIL (UK)? instead of phone number/ digits.
ANYWAY, votes on NUMBER or DIGITS? ....
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
EPIC FAILomega05 said:
Lol
DJ Miquelo
Don Juan
i stick with 'number' personally.
You should add a poll to this btw if u want a numerical result.
You should add a poll to this btw if u want a numerical result.
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MAN_OF_TOMMOROW said:
Neither. When you ask for her number, regardless of how you say it, alarm bells will go off in her head that you're trying to pick her up. Instead try this...
"What's a good way of keeping in touch?"
Now she's offering up a way to keep in contact, so in her mind it's HER idea to give you her number. It's a tiny little psychological tweak that makes a huge impact. And don't worry if she gives you an email address or her Facebook info. For one thing a close is still a close. Second of all FB is now the best close you can get, so going straight for the number can hurt your chances actually.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Nutz said:
BRILLIANT.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Oh yeah Cuzza,cuzza said:
I am from the UK, "London" and DIGITS is widely used. Moreso,AFCs tho.
ariet
Don Juan
Number for sure
unless she said digits before
you may use it
but honestly doesnt matter at all does it? (exeption is when someone ask you what you were doing never say CHILAXING brah)
unless she said digits before
you may use it
but honestly doesnt matter at all does it? (exeption is when someone ask you what you were doing never say CHILAXING brah)
She_feelin_Me
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Number
Goldenboy25
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It's focusing on small details like this that f*ck up a mans game.
Doesn't matter bro.
Doesn't matter bro.
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Goldenboy25 said:
Correction: it's NOT paying attention to details such as this that can frak up your game. Blatantly asking for her number can set off red flags and make it feel like a pickup. If you were going indirect that's going to really work against you.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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I'm not advocating/debating the issue of whether or not a man should ask for a womans number/digits.Nutz said:
I'm simply saying the details^ of such an approach are irrelevant, and focusing on them WILL mess with your head.
If she don't want your number then she don't want it
you can make it sound as "Indirect" as possible, but if the chick don't like you then she could give a rat ass to contact you later
small crap like this does fvck up game
just do what comes natural and stop obsessing over **** like this
I've gotten chicks by saying **** like
"aay girl let me get that monkey" and it worked
you can make it sound as "Indirect" as possible, but if the chick don't like you then she could give a rat ass to contact you later
small crap like this does fvck up game
just do what comes natural and stop obsessing over **** like this
I've gotten chicks by saying **** like
"aay girl let me get that monkey" and it worked
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Why isit, when in TIPS there is always some yada yada on things and someone says its "IRRELEVANT" This is why its posted in this section of the forum dude.
Your opinion is welcomed, but saying its irrelevant is just tooting your own horn. I was watching a few vids of ALEX from SucceedAtDating.com and he said "Never ask directly for the number....always use DIGITS.." So I was curious as to know what the opinions where on that.
Easy, peasy lemon squeasy's. No debate on it. Just opionions. Oh yeah this is definetly not f u c k i n g MY GAME up. My whole approach in itself determines whether I follow through with my targets number, not by two words. But like NUTZ said, I might start using NEITHER and see how that method works in my liking. If you're approaching OFTEN, like me, then it shouldnt be a problem to try out new methods? surely?
Your opinion is welcomed, but saying its irrelevant is just tooting your own horn. I was watching a few vids of ALEX from SucceedAtDating.com and he said "Never ask directly for the number....always use DIGITS.." So I was curious as to know what the opinions where on that.
Easy, peasy lemon squeasy's. No debate on it. Just opionions.
Oh yeah this is definetly not f u c k i n g MY GAME up. My whole approach in itself determines whether I follow through with my targets number, not by two words. But like NUTZ said, I might start using NEITHER and see how that method works in my liking. If you're approaching OFTEN, like me, then it shouldnt be a problem to try out new methods? surely?Cassanova_Child
Don Juan
changing one word isnt a new method my friend, I'm sorry to tell you.
MAN_OF_TOMMOROW
Don Juan
Method as in "Whats a good way of keeping in touch" read what I wrote Cas.Cassanova_Child said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.