idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
It shouldn't make a difference....
....if you like her, go for it.
....if you like her, go for it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Different race dating with different race
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
And what the hell might you be talkin about?? Do you have any proof of this?? How do YOU know the purpose of his post??
Its no different. Are you thinking you need like a translator to talk to the chick or what? Are you thinking she makes you learn her language before she will accept you? Are you thinking she has a 3rd arm because shes a different race.
Seriously...
THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
It's been ten years since I've dated anyone from my race, mostly LTRs lasting a year or two (if that even counts as a LTR). I live in Minnesota and it's readily accepted but it isn't the norm of the locals. Most people that are receptive to it aren't Minnesota natives. Either that or they have lived in places that are socially diverse yet economically equal, if you get my drift.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So here's a question; Rank in order from most divisive to least:
- Cultural difference
- Religious difference
- Political difference
- Socio/Economic difference
- Educational difference
This should spur the topic along...
- Cultural difference
- Religious difference
- Political difference
- Socio/Economic difference
- Educational difference
This should spur the topic along...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm not being racist here but what about:
Asian male with Hispanic female
Have you seen couples of them?
Hispanic male with Indian (Arabian and the others who's native country is in the Middle East area) female
Have you seen couples of them?
Arabian/Indian/Middle East male with Hispanic female
Have you seen couples of them?
Asian males with White females
Have you seen couples of them?
Asian males with # of Hispanic females
Hispanic males with # of Indian females
Black male with # of Asian females
White male with # of Asian females
This is from experience, and i've noticed i haven't seen any couples (the pairs mentioned before) in my sight before.
Asian male with Hispanic female
Have you seen couples of them?
Hispanic male with Indian (Arabian and the others who's native country is in the Middle East area) female
Have you seen couples of them?
Arabian/Indian/Middle East male with Hispanic female
Have you seen couples of them?
Asian males with White females
Have you seen couples of them?
Asian males with # of Hispanic females
Hispanic males with # of Indian females
Black male with # of Asian females
White male with # of Asian females
This is from experience, and i've noticed i haven't seen any couples (the pairs mentioned before) in my sight before.
Steven Seagal
Don Juan
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I have seen plenty of asian guys date white females.
think interracial dating depends on where you live. Here in California, it is basically a non-issue. I'd imagine that things would be different in other places.
Either way, I will venture to say that Your peers won't care, as long as she's hot ^^
think interracial dating depends on where you live. Here in California, it is basically a non-issue. I'd imagine that things would be different in other places.
Either way, I will venture to say that Your peers won't care, as long as she's hot ^^