"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Different race dating with different race

idiot_boyfriend

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It shouldn't make a difference....

....if you like her, go for it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Whats your point?? Dont be a punk, just get to your point.
i'm not trying to make a point.
 

oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Nivek
pretty much the purpose of these posts is to show that it is much harder for a colored male to get with a white female than vice versa with a white male and colored female. guys think differently from girls and base it on looks. girls base on social bias and other things.
And what the hell might you be talkin about?? Do you have any proof of this?? How do YOU know the purpose of his post??
 

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
And what the hell might you be talkin about?? Do you have any proof of this?? How do YOU know the purpose of his post??
the purpose was to know if anybody here has experienced it.

if anybody has experienced dating women from different races and what they've experience, by the way.
 

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Originally posted by tactic
the purpose was to know if anybody here has experienced it.

if anybody has experienced dating women from different races and what they've experience, by the way.
Its no different. Are you thinking you need like a translator to talk to the chick or what? Are you thinking she makes you learn her language before she will accept you? Are you thinking she has a 3rd arm because shes a different race.

Seriously...
THERE IS NO DIFFERENCE
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i think that its fine to date others of a different race. But u also have to remember that he or she may like you for who you are, but when i comes to ur culture, it may change everything.
 

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Originally posted by Cyberdx16
i think that its fine to date others of a different race. But u also have to remember that he or she may like you for who you are, but when i comes to ur culture, it may change everything.
that's what i was trying to say but not trying to make a point.
 

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out of the billions of genes we have in our body... only 6 are used to distinguish your race.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by tactic
the purpose was to know if anybody here has experienced it.

if anybody has experienced dating women from different races and what they've experience, by the way.
It's been ten years since I've dated anyone from my race, mostly LTRs lasting a year or two (if that even counts as a LTR). I live in Minnesota and it's readily accepted but it isn't the norm of the locals. Most people that are receptive to it aren't Minnesota natives. Either that or they have lived in places that are socially diverse yet economically equal, if you get my drift.
 

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So here's a question; Rank in order from most divisive to least:

- Cultural difference
- Religious difference
- Political difference
- Socio/Economic difference
- Educational difference

This should spur the topic along... :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm not being racist here but what about:

Asian male with Hispanic female

Have you seen couples of them?

Hispanic male with Indian (Arabian and the others who's native country is in the Middle East area) female

Have you seen couples of them?

Arabian/Indian/Middle East male with Hispanic female

Have you seen couples of them?

Asian males with White females

Have you seen couples of them?

Asian males with # of Hispanic females
Hispanic males with # of Indian females
Black male with # of Asian females
White male with # of Asian females

This is from experience, and i've noticed i haven't seen any couples (the pairs mentioned before) in my sight before.
 

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I have seen plenty of asian guys date white females.

think interracial dating depends on where you live. Here in California, it is basically a non-issue. I'd imagine that things would be different in other places.

Either way, I will venture to say that Your peers won't care, as long as she's hot ^^
 

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I want to get with this white girl , I'm black. She does not treat m any different than anyone else. I am trying to change that..for the better. I hope there is no subliminal racial bias.
 
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