Dating in your 40's...the women are bat s crazy

[Ricky]

What if you went around with the attitude of abundance and thought that there are alot of women worth meeting?
You could look at the good in some of these women and bring it out of them.

I am sure there are plenty of crazy women and men out there but you can focus on the thought that there could be lots of good ones too.

Now i will say this, i read part of a a book on attachment styles recently and they said that you are much more likely to find dismissive avoidant types out there single because the securely attached ones tend to stay in relationships for long periods of time.

 

[Deranged]

i see so many at work. I work in a large building full of professional services. I don’t have to go there much.

I’m an outgoing kind of guy and I always strike up conversations. I generally give a nod or a smile to all I meet. It’s called networking, or Just generally being cool.

So many of these women walk around with a perma scowl. So I would correct you, they aren’t like a lot of guys. A lot of guys are comfortable enough in their own skin to be open and friendly. These women approach life like it’s a battle and end up spinning their wheels because they haven’t worked out people need to like you if you want to advance. Sure you need to be not a pushover, but it’s like they learned that and got stuck. They only know the stick.

i have no idea how they get there. How do you get to that place in life, where it’s a constant attritional battle with everyone?

perhaps it’s the shield and they don’t want guys hitting on them? Surel cutting yourself off from everyone is a high price to pay

Well they grew up being taught that they should go out in the workforce and earn their keep, just like men. Then they find out the hard way that, on average, in the workforce men are more capable at everything. But it must not be admitted or said. So they grow a perma scowl, they've been fvcking duped! They could have been the nuclei of something truly special. The queen of their domain. The glue and webbing that creates and keeps a high function household together. All while being young and full of energy. But nope, head out there and try to keep up with the boy's, cause you're really no different than them. Gender is a social construct. Fvck what nature says, you don't have comparative strong and weak suits, you are equal to them in every way.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

As Margaret thatcher said “if you want something said, ask a man. If you want something done, ask a woman”.

Are you sure you didn't get this backwards Fruitbat? Here in the U.S. the women gab and the men actually do things.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Personally I like turning them into my sex toys and sometimes seek out women like that. Because if you can pull it off they will be your personal sloot where another man has never taken the time - you can have them eating out of your hand if you’re good.

I don’t mind the challenge.

The self-proclaimed "Alpha Female" aka Boss Bytch

She works at middle management at best in corporate America or is a supervisor and is typically in her 30s/40s
She knows she is not feminine and conducts herself as a dude
She has a nice body and is a woman physically but her mentality is like a man
She is also a super feminist or super awkward or both
Even railing her isn't worth it cause she wants to be in control

I avoid those like the plague

 

[Mazer]

Unmarried, childless women over 30 are broken. Don’t even try it. You have to get em younger in their dating life. Sorry bro, it’s just how their brains are wired.

Each additional relationship, and each additional dvck she takes damages her even more. By 40 they aren’t even women.

“ By 40 they aren’t even women” funny shyt!!

 

[Vero Della Rosa]

Sounds like this guy does OLD, been telling you guys for years once you get into a high status social circle it filters nd vets women for you
OLD is for slumpbusters

OLD?

 

[Vero Della Rosa]

The self-proclaimed "Alpha Female" aka Boss Bytch

She works at middle management at best in corporate America or is a supervisor and is typically in her 30s/40s
She knows she is not feminine and conducts herself as a dude
She has a nice body and is a woman physically but her mentality is like a man
She is also a super feminist or super awkward or both
Even railing her isn't worth it cause she wants to be in control

I avoid those like the plague

I saw that new "Roman" symbol someone made up to symbolize many men today - this should be "Reyna"

(means queen)

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

OLD?

Online Line Dating

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Online Line Dating

Ornery Leftover Dames

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Ornery Leftover Dames

I see yours and raise you 10:

1. Overly Lazy Dude/Dudette
2. Obsessed with Luxury and Decadence
3. Outdated Living Dinosaur
4. Oh Look, Dentures!
5. Occasionally Losing Direction
6. Only Loves Donuts
7. Outstandingly Lazy Dude/Dudette
8. Overwhelmed by Life's Demands
9. Opposed to Learning Anything New
10. On Life's Decline

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I see yours and raise you 10:

1. Overly Lazy Dude/Dudette
2. Obsessed with Luxury and Decadence
3. Outdated Living Dinosaur
4. Oh Look, Dentures!
5. Occasionally Losing Direction
6. Only Loves Donuts
7. Outstandingly Lazy Dude/Dudette
8. Overwhelmed by Life's Demands
9. Opposed to Learning Anything New
10. On Life's Decline

Locked and loaded huh?

Old Lady Dykes, off the top of my head.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Obese, Loony and Difficult.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Only Long D1cks. (I will stop while I'm ahead lol)

 

[member160292]

Personally I like turning them into my sex toys and sometimes seek out women like that. Because if you can pull it off they will be your personal sloot where another man has never taken the time - you can have them eating out of your hand if you’re good.

I don’t mind the challenge.

What’s you’re response when they start to rationalize that and confront you about it?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

What’s you’re response when they start to rationalize that and confront you about it?

Confront me about what?

 

[The Duke]

Confront me about what?

She'll say things like "all you want me for is sex"

 

[Dr.Suave]

She'll say things like "all you want me for is sex"

I would suggest Agree & Amplify

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

In the post glow of the first time I wreck them, I’ll make it very clear that historically a woman that says “you only want me for sex” signals the beginning of the end, without fail. Of course I keep the conversations sexualized consistently so talking about this type of thing is natural.

You have to be smart and weave in warnings into a funny conversation - it’s a side channel data stream that feeds straight into their cortex, they cannot point at it directly but they start to assemble a picture of you.

If you provide her value - whatever she perceives as value - she will protect the liaison and not want to rock the boat.

She'll say things like "all you want me for is sex"

 

[Solomon]

In the post glow of the first time I wreck them, I’ll make it very clear that historically a woman that says “you only want me for sex” signals the beginning of the end, without fail. Of course I keep the conversations sexualized consistently so talking about this type of thing is natural.

You have to be smart and weave in warnings into a funny conversation - it’s a side channel data stream that feeds straight into their cortex, they cannot point at it directly but they start to assemble a picture of you.

If you provide her value - whatever she perceives as value - she will protect the liaison and not want to rock the boat.

I had a woman get offended at me for making a sex joke after she sent me, a picture of her riding a mechanical Golden penis (which looks like a mechanical bull) she then had the nerve to be offended when I made a joke alluding to her riding me
Yet this same female later that day thought it was funny to send me screenshots of pickup lines other men were sending her. I ended up blocking her and she was 49 (blond pretty great body for her age)

I bring this up because the games don't stop with older women it actually gets worse!
I noticed women in their 40s want to control the frame and I can't do some bantering sexually or a woman trying to stifle me in a "Relationship" box I eject. I prefer the 40 year old woman who knows what they want and don't play games about it

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Yeah if they behave like that I don’t put up with it. I relegate them to focktoys.
If they ghost so be it.

I had a woman get offended at me for making a sex joke after she sent me, a picture of her riding a mechanical Golden penis (which looks like a mechanical bull) she then had the nerve to be offended when I made a joke alluding to her riding me
Yet this same female later that day thought it was funny to send me screenshots of pickup lines other men were sending her. I ended up blocking her and she was 49 (blond pretty great body for her age)

I bring this up because the games don't stop with older women it actually gets worse!
I noticed women in their 40s want to control the frame and I can't do some bantering sexually or a woman trying to stifle me in a "Relationship" box I eject. I prefer the 40 year old woman who knows what they want and don't play games about it