Master Don Juan
- May 31, 2020
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Men in your area are quite thirsty and many are low value. There's also a decent amount of cougar hunting there.My locale is the same. Gives me a chuckle. Last night a 35 year old businessman was hitting on me. Laughable in my mind, but true.
Good chance he's thirsty and has been striking out with 25-35 year old women.Why would a 35 year old businessman hitting on you be laughable? A lot of men hit on women they want to have sex with especially those that think they have a chance with. To be honest, most men are not stupid. There's a good chance he's been successful with similar woman and that is why he's hitting on you.
I have found women in their 30s and 40s physically attractive in many cases. I've had shorter to medium term relationships over time. I don't mind dating a woman close to my age (late 30s) if she's childless and well preserved. I am not interested in older women and haven't been for at least a decade.many if not most of the guys here believe 30 is old! Broken, damaged, unfit to be in a relationship, unworthy, unattractive, useless, over the hill, post-wall skanks.
Which is so hilarious, they should move to my neck of the woods! Where 30+, 40+ women are highly sought after by high status men as they know how to take of themselves, are physically fit, healthy, good skin, good attitudes and "feminine" (cause I know how you guys love using that word when describing desirable women)
I thought 40 and 50 were old at 22. The nightlife business is exactly what you said it is in terms of mating behavior.the ribbing I sometimes get for being in my 50s, like geez I must be utterly out of touch and couldn’t possibly be attractive or fit or hot etc. And I get it. When I was 22 I thought 50 something was old. So it’s a tongue-in-cheek acknowledgement of my age. My son will be 20 this summer and my daughters are now teens, and so I pay attention to the interactions going on in the very young dating pool.
And of course I have my own experience in the dating world as well as having been in the nightlife business, which is essentially a laboratory of the dynamics of human mating behavior.
It does not appear that being a mom of 3 has ever slowed your dating life. 2 of the 3 are still under 18.