ok yea ive been posting alot past 2 days but oh well. ANYWAYS theres this chick really likes me wants to hook up and go to the movies the saterday which was most likley wat i was gunna do till my friend calls me up says hes havin a barnfire this saterday and a lot of ppl are comming and a lot of hot girls. Now should i make up some excuse to go the barnfire or should i just go on the date cus im sure she wouldnt like be pissed if we didnt hang out saterday, but i also told her that this weekend we would chill so yall tell me date or barnfire wit lots of hot girls that = to lots of numbers
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
date or barnfire?
- Thread starter djweses89
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Bonfire?
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Teflon_Mcgee
Master Don Juan
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The question is, my friend, what do YOU want to do?
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Go to the movies early in the day (2ish)
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I don't think I've slept past 2 in ages.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
just go to bed at like midnight. you should be fine.
foxintehsnow
Don Juan
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friends come first dude **** the date.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You guys keep acting like he has to choose one or the other.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
one girl saturday, bonfire sat night. next girl sunday?
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck