ok yea ive been posting alot past 2 days but oh well. ANYWAYS theres this chick really likes me wants to hook up and go to the movies the saterday which was most likley wat i was gunna do till my friend calls me up says hes havin a barnfire this saterday and a lot of ppl are comming and a lot of hot girls. Now should i make up some excuse to go the barnfire or should i just go on the date cus im sure she wouldnt like be pissed if we didnt hang out saterday, but i also told her that this weekend we would chill so yall tell me date or barnfire wit lots of hot girls that = to lots of numbers
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
date or barnfire?
- Thread starter djweses89
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Bonfire?
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Teflon_Mcgee
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The question is, my friend, what do YOU want to do?
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Go to the movies early in the day (2ish)
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I don't think I've slept past 2 in ages.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
just go to bed at like midnight. you should be fine.
foxintehsnow
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friends come first dude **** the date.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You guys keep acting like he has to choose one or the other.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
one girl saturday, bonfire sat night. next girl sunday?
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck