"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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date or barnfire?

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ok yea ive been posting alot past 2 days but oh well. ANYWAYS theres this chick really likes me wants to hook up and go to the movies the saterday which was most likley wat i was gunna do till my friend calls me up says hes havin a barnfire this saterday and a lot of ppl are comming and a lot of hot girls. Now should i make up some excuse to go the barnfire or should i just go on the date cus im sure she wouldnt like be pissed if we didnt hang out saterday, but i also told her that this weekend we would chill so yall tell me date or barnfire wit lots of hot girls that = to lots of numbers
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bonfire?

Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.

Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
 

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she dont live in same town as me lives like 30 min 40 min away but where she lives is the movies
 

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The question is, my friend, what do YOU want to do?

If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.

If you truly do not know then I will tell you.

You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?

Good. End of discussion.
 

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Go to the movies early in the day (2ish)
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)

It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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2ish could mess up my late sleepin time haha but idk could just go movies SUNDAY hehe
 

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I don't think I've slept past 2 in ages.
 

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should try it plus i wont be sleepin past two but to get ready eat all that cus im slow after wakin up means i would have to get up like 10 or 11 instead of 12 or 1
 

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just go to bed at like midnight. you should be fine.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You guys keep acting like he has to choose one or the other.

DO BOTH!

Jeezus

How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?

Not that hard.

I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
 

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haha idc i was just askin im pretty sure i know wat im goin to do but yea but now i got another girl that wants to hang out so gotta see how i can manage all this but yea
 

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one girl saturday, bonfire sat night. next girl sunday?

goodnight..i'm tired as phuck
 
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