ok yea ive been posting alot past 2 days but oh well. ANYWAYS theres this chick really likes me wants to hook up and go to the movies the saterday which was most likley wat i was gunna do till my friend calls me up says hes havin a barnfire this saterday and a lot of ppl are comming and a lot of hot girls. Now should i make up some excuse to go the barnfire or should i just go on the date cus im sure she wouldnt like be pissed if we didnt hang out saterday, but i also told her that this weekend we would chill so yall tell me date or barnfire wit lots of hot girls that = to lots of numbers
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
date or barnfire?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Bonfire?
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Teflon_Mcgee
Master Don Juan
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The question is, my friend, what do YOU want to do?
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Go to the movies early in the day (2ish)
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I don't think I've slept past 2 in ages.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
just go to bed at like midnight. you should be fine.
foxintehsnow
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friends come first dude **** the date.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You guys keep acting like he has to choose one or the other.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
one girl saturday, bonfire sat night. next girl sunday?
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck