"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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date or barnfire?

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ok yea ive been posting alot past 2 days but oh well. ANYWAYS theres this chick really likes me wants to hook up and go to the movies the saterday which was most likley wat i was gunna do till my friend calls me up says hes havin a barnfire this saterday and a lot of ppl are comming and a lot of hot girls. Now should i make up some excuse to go the barnfire or should i just go on the date cus im sure she wouldnt like be pissed if we didnt hang out saterday, but i also told her that this weekend we would chill so yall tell me date or barnfire wit lots of hot girls that = to lots of numbers
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bonfire?

Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.

Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
 

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she dont live in same town as me lives like 30 min 40 min away but where she lives is the movies
 

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The question is, my friend, what do YOU want to do?

If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.

If you truly do not know then I will tell you.

You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?

Good. End of discussion.
 

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Go to the movies early in the day (2ish)
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)

It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2ish could mess up my late sleepin time haha but idk could just go movies SUNDAY hehe
 

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I don't think I've slept past 2 in ages.
 

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should try it plus i wont be sleepin past two but to get ready eat all that cus im slow after wakin up means i would have to get up like 10 or 11 instead of 12 or 1
 

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just go to bed at like midnight. you should be fine.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You guys keep acting like he has to choose one or the other.

DO BOTH!

Jeezus

How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?

Not that hard.

I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
 

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haha idc i was just askin im pretty sure i know wat im goin to do but yea but now i got another girl that wants to hang out so gotta see how i can manage all this but yea
 

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one girl saturday, bonfire sat night. next girl sunday?

goodnight..i'm tired as phuck
 
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