ok yea ive been posting alot past 2 days but oh well. ANYWAYS theres this chick really likes me wants to hook up and go to the movies the saterday which was most likley wat i was gunna do till my friend calls me up says hes havin a barnfire this saterday and a lot of ppl are comming and a lot of hot girls. Now should i make up some excuse to go the barnfire or should i just go on the date cus im sure she wouldnt like be pissed if we didnt hang out saterday, but i also told her that this weekend we would chill so yall tell me date or barnfire wit lots of hot girls that = to lots of numbers
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
date or barnfire?
- Thread starter djweses89
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Bonfire?
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Why can't you just take her to the Bonfire? I love those things.
Or, go to the movies saturDAY, and saturNIGHT, go to the bonfire
Teflon_Mcgee
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The question is, my friend, what do YOU want to do?
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
If you want to go to the bonfire then that is what you should do.
If yo want to go to the movies then that is what you should do.
If you truly do not know then I will tell you.
You will go to the bonfire and you will like it. Not a second though about it. Understand?
Good. End of discussion.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Go to the movies early in the day (2ish)
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
Bonfire at night (8-9ish?)
It's not that tough. A day is 24 hours. Are you saying you can't do two things in one day?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
I don't think I've slept past 2 in ages.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
just go to bed at like midnight. you should be fine.
foxintehsnow
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friends come first dude **** the date.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You guys keep acting like he has to choose one or the other.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
DO BOTH!
Jeezus
How hard is it to go out friday night, come home around midnight, go to bed, get up around 11ish (11hours of sleep?) get ready, go to a movie, come home, chill, relax, go to a bonfire a few hours later?
Not that hard.
I personally get up at 10, do about 7 hours of community service. come home, shower, go out, come home, get up about the same time the next day, do a few things AND I've got a probation curfew of 8pm.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
one girl saturday, bonfire sat night. next girl sunday?
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck
goodnight..i'm tired as phuck