Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Crunches are a waste of time, 6 packs are made in the kitchen.killbill said:Well im trying to get a six pack. And I was told that crunches are the best thing to do. So I just wanted some opinions on how good they are compared to a sit-up. Also are crunches just as effective?
killbill
shadowfox said:Crunches are a waste of time, 6 packs are made in the kitchen.
He's a do-it-yourself-er.Egoist said:for real? I just pick mine up at the grocery store..
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Create Reality said:He's a do-it-yourself-er.
Yes, you need to do ab workouts for a 6 pack. But you also need to lower body fat to a low level, around 10%.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Sir, I wholeheartedly agree. You have beaten me to the punch. Well said.Egoist said:regular high-rep crunches do sh!t for your sixpack.
yes, diet is 80%, can't have a sixpack with chub on your stomach, but..
if you want a sixpack, you just need to do crunches with some heavy weight.. sets of maybe 6-15 reps.. the less reps, the more weight - the better.