"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Correlation between high crime and amount of female judges

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I would think it has more to do with demographics and political policies concerning law enforcement. I'm in SF so I know first hand that the latter has a big effect.
 

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I would think it has more to do with demographics and political policies concerning law enforcement. I'm in SF so I know first hand that the latter has a big effect.
SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
 

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SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
Or San Fran could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple...


Hire a Sheriff
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Or the city could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple: Hire a Sheriff
Have you lived in SF proper? Or is your opinion not first hand?
 

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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
I have fam in the Bay Area. It's 7 million and the microcosms are all full of crappy dating attitudes until you get out to the central valley.

But back to the OP, females tend to be progressive (i.e., permissive) more so than males, so it's a "the sky is blue" kind of thing.

Leave it to Corn to take something obvious and propose it is absurd.

But then again, that's a good idea for a TV Pilot - Leave It To Corn.

@CornbreadFed, what do you think?
 
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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
I didn't anticipate my original reply ("San Fran could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple... Hire a Sheriff"*)being taken so literally. For whatever it's worth, a recently published screed on this subject has been making the rounds for awhile




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I have fam in the Bay Area. It's 7 million and the microcosms are all full of crappy dating attitudes until you get out to the central valley.

But back to the OP, females tend to be progressive (i.e., permissive) more so than males, so it's a "the sky is blue" kind of thing.

Leave it to Corn to take something obvious and propose it is absurd.

But then again, that's a good idea for a TV Pilot - Leave It To Corn.

@CornbreadFed, what do you think?
It depends what you consider the Bay Area. Anything east of the east bay mountain range is not in the Bay Area, although it calls itself that to try to get Bay Area real estate valuation.

Anyway, the idea was to show that the greater metro is not the Haight, as most seem to think it is.

It’s a tough dating market, but you adjust.
 

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SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
And San Fran doesn't by any means hold a monopoly on horrific events. Just today, the following occurred in Anaheim



That article neglects to mention that Ms. Lear, was at the time, fleeing JJ DeAngelo*, decked out in Mickey Mouse get-up. After being granted compassionate release, dude was hired as a Disneyland Theme Character, thanks to the park's participation in Cali's prisoner re-entry program. Clearly though, some habits aren't nearly as easy to kick as tobacco and opiates are



* https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_James_DeAngelo
 

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor. Most of your references to celebs and whatnot go right over my head as I have absolutely no idea who these people are, and I’m not particularly interested in finding out. Morose might be a suitable adjective.

Maybe I’m the one thats bizarre…
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor

In hindsight, that post could've been more proficiently written:



San Fran doesn't by any means hold a monopoly on horrific events. Just today, the following occurred in Anaheim



That article neglects to mention though:


Ms. Lear, was at the time, fleeing from JJ DeAngelo*, decked out in Mickey Mouse get-up. Disneyland had hired dude as a Theme Character, after he was granted a
Compassionate Release, and the park decided to participate in Cali's prisoner re-entry program. Clearly though, some habits are much tougher to kick than tobacco and opiates are



* https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_James_DeAngelo
 

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor... Morose might be a suitable adjective.
"Morbid", "Grim", and "Macabre" might actually be more apt. So much so, that I'm only sharing my riff on Boy Meets World alum Trina McGee getting knocked up at age 54 here https://thefreespeechforum.com/thre...-on-boy-meets-world-is-54-and-pregnant.24777/

While hoping and praying that TFSG lives up to it's mandate :confused:

Bringing this back around, kinda sorta, to the subject of this thread. There's evidence indicating thay women(Especially White women, hailing from upper income homes)are more likely to identify as Progressive, and be deeply immersed in social justice culture. Folks in this demographic are predisposed towards what Haslam et al have termed Concept Creep




Stands to reason then:

There most likely are at least a few women in America occupying the bench right now, who harbor a highly elastic definition of words such as "harm" and "trauma", which in turn influence the rulings they're handing down. When a judge believes that sentencing a dope fiend to the maximum, for a grand larceny which he or she is guilty of, would be "harming" or "traumatizing" them... Well, justice clearly isn't a priority, when ever she's commanding a court room
 
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Seriously @BaronOfHair - reading and trying to put together the endless pop culture references and the idea of watching all the videos and reading all the URL's you post in a single post makes my resting heart rate go from 58 to 94 sometimes.

p.s. It's meant as constructive criticism, if people ;TLDR your posts (as I often do) you're not achieving what I presume to be your goal: to engage in discussion.
 

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Seriously @BaronOfHair - reading and trying to put together the endless pop culture references and the idea of watching all the videos and reading all the URL's you post in a single post makes my resting heart rate go from 58 to 94 sometimes.
Most of my references aren't pop cultural, for whatever consolation that provides. Everyone has a choice to either destroy their remaining grey matter playing The X Box, or to enrich their minds, by watching the educational vids and links I've provided. No judgment either way :p:cool:
 

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High crime correlates with the levels of identity politics that stupid/spineless local politicians embrace
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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