"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would think it has more to do with demographics and political policies concerning law enforcement. I'm in SF so I know first hand that the latter has a big effect.
 

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I would think it has more to do with demographics and political policies concerning law enforcement. I'm in SF so I know first hand that the latter has a big effect.
SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
 

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SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
Or San Fran could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple...


Hire a Sheriff
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Or the city could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple: Hire a Sheriff
Have you lived in SF proper? Or is your opinion not first hand?
 

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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

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Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
I have fam in the Bay Area. It's 7 million and the microcosms are all full of crappy dating attitudes until you get out to the central valley.

But back to the OP, females tend to be progressive (i.e., permissive) more so than males, so it's a "the sky is blue" kind of thing.

Leave it to Corn to take something obvious and propose it is absurd.

But then again, that's a good idea for a TV Pilot - Leave It To Corn.

@CornbreadFed, what do you think?
 
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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
I didn't anticipate my original reply ("San Fran could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple... Hire a Sheriff"*)being taken so literally. For whatever it's worth, a recently published screed on this subject has been making the rounds for awhile




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I have fam in the Bay Area. It's 7 million and the microcosms are all full of crappy dating attitudes until you get out to the central valley.

But back to the OP, females tend to be progressive (i.e., permissive) more so than males, so it's a "the sky is blue" kind of thing.

Leave it to Corn to take something obvious and propose it is absurd.

But then again, that's a good idea for a TV Pilot - Leave It To Corn.

@CornbreadFed, what do you think?
It depends what you consider the Bay Area. Anything east of the east bay mountain range is not in the Bay Area, although it calls itself that to try to get Bay Area real estate valuation.

Anyway, the idea was to show that the greater metro is not the Haight, as most seem to think it is.

It’s a tough dating market, but you adjust.
 

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SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
And San Fran doesn't by any means hold a monopoly on horrific events. Just today, the following occurred in Anaheim



That article neglects to mention that Ms. Lear, was at the time, fleeing JJ DeAngelo*, decked out in Mickey Mouse get-up. After being granted compassionate release, dude was hired as a Disneyland Theme Character, thanks to the park's participation in Cali's prisoner re-entry program. Clearly though, some habits aren't nearly as easy to kick as tobacco and opiates are



* https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_James_DeAngelo
 

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor. Most of your references to celebs and whatnot go right over my head as I have absolutely no idea who these people are, and I’m not particularly interested in finding out. Morose might be a suitable adjective.

Maybe I’m the one thats bizarre…
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor

In hindsight, that post could've been more proficiently written:



San Fran doesn't by any means hold a monopoly on horrific events. Just today, the following occurred in Anaheim



That article neglects to mention though:


Ms. Lear, was at the time, fleeing from JJ DeAngelo*, decked out in Mickey Mouse get-up. Disneyland had hired dude as a Theme Character, after he was granted a
Compassionate Release, and the park decided to participate in Cali's prisoner re-entry program. Clearly though, some habits are much tougher to kick than tobacco and opiates are



* https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_James_DeAngelo
 

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor... Morose might be a suitable adjective.
"Morbid", "Grim", and "Macabre" might actually be more apt. So much so, that I'm only sharing my riff on Boy Meets World alum Trina McGee getting knocked up at age 54 here https://thefreespeechforum.com/thre...-on-boy-meets-world-is-54-and-pregnant.24777/

While hoping and praying that TFSG lives up to it's mandate :confused:

Bringing this back around, kinda sorta, to the subject of this thread. There's evidence indicating thay women(Especially White women, hailing from upper income homes)are more likely to identify as Progressive, and be deeply immersed in social justice culture. Folks in this demographic are predisposed towards what Haslam et al have termed Concept Creep




Stands to reason then:

There most likely are at least a few women in America occupying the bench right now, who harbor a highly elastic definition of words such as "harm" and "trauma", which in turn influence the rulings they're handing down. When a judge believes that sentencing a dope fiend to the maximum, for a grand larceny which he or she is guilty of, would be "harming" or "traumatizing" them... Well, justice clearly isn't a priority, when ever she's commanding a court room
 
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Seriously @BaronOfHair - reading and trying to put together the endless pop culture references and the idea of watching all the videos and reading all the URL's you post in a single post makes my resting heart rate go from 58 to 94 sometimes.

p.s. It's meant as constructive criticism, if people ;TLDR your posts (as I often do) you're not achieving what I presume to be your goal: to engage in discussion.
 

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Seriously @BaronOfHair - reading and trying to put together the endless pop culture references and the idea of watching all the videos and reading all the URL's you post in a single post makes my resting heart rate go from 58 to 94 sometimes.
Most of my references aren't pop cultural, for whatever consolation that provides. Everyone has a choice to either destroy their remaining grey matter playing The X Box, or to enrich their minds, by watching the educational vids and links I've provided. No judgment either way :p:cool:
 

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High crime correlates with the levels of identity politics that stupid/spineless local politicians embrace
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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