"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Correlation between high crime and amount of female judges

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would think it has more to do with demographics and political policies concerning law enforcement. I'm in SF so I know first hand that the latter has a big effect.
 

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I would think it has more to do with demographics and political policies concerning law enforcement. I'm in SF so I know first hand that the latter has a big effect.
SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
 

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SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
Or San Fran could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple...


Hire a Sheriff
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Or the city could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple: Hire a Sheriff
Have you lived in SF proper? Or is your opinion not first hand?
 

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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
I have fam in the Bay Area. It's 7 million and the microcosms are all full of crappy dating attitudes until you get out to the central valley.

But back to the OP, females tend to be progressive (i.e., permissive) more so than males, so it's a "the sky is blue" kind of thing.

Leave it to Corn to take something obvious and propose it is absurd.

But then again, that's a good idea for a TV Pilot - Leave It To Corn.

@CornbreadFed, what do you think?
 
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Not sure that qualifies as a robust experience to be able to truly opine on a place. The way one experiences a spot you visit is very different than than the experience of those who live there.

Ask @Hamurabimbi and the others who actually live here.

The city of SF is much different than Palo Alto, Oakland, San Jose, Marin, Fremont, etc all are part of the SF Bay Area and microcosms of their own.

Those who don’t or haven’t lived here say SF and they mean SF Bay Area. ~800k in SF, ~4.6 million in the SF Bay Area.

I’ve found most of the opinions about SF here are from Fox News.
I didn't anticipate my original reply ("San Fran could just rename itself Nottingham. By extension, rectifying the dilemma the city currently finds itself in becomes quite simple... Hire a Sheriff"*)being taken so literally. For whatever it's worth, a recently published screed on this subject has been making the rounds for awhile




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I have fam in the Bay Area. It's 7 million and the microcosms are all full of crappy dating attitudes until you get out to the central valley.

But back to the OP, females tend to be progressive (i.e., permissive) more so than males, so it's a "the sky is blue" kind of thing.

Leave it to Corn to take something obvious and propose it is absurd.

But then again, that's a good idea for a TV Pilot - Leave It To Corn.

@CornbreadFed, what do you think?
It depends what you consider the Bay Area. Anything east of the east bay mountain range is not in the Bay Area, although it calls itself that to try to get Bay Area real estate valuation.

Anyway, the idea was to show that the greater metro is not the Haight, as most seem to think it is.

It’s a tough dating market, but you adjust.
 

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SF needs a new DA, they’re the ones that dictate most things related to crime and how it’s prosecuted, if at all…
And San Fran doesn't by any means hold a monopoly on horrific events. Just today, the following occurred in Anaheim



That article neglects to mention that Ms. Lear, was at the time, fleeing JJ DeAngelo*, decked out in Mickey Mouse get-up. After being granted compassionate release, dude was hired as a Disneyland Theme Character, thanks to the park's participation in Cali's prisoner re-entry program. Clearly though, some habits aren't nearly as easy to kick as tobacco and opiates are



* https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_James_DeAngelo
 

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor. Most of your references to celebs and whatnot go right over my head as I have absolutely no idea who these people are, and I’m not particularly interested in finding out. Morose might be a suitable adjective.

Maybe I’m the one thats bizarre…
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor

In hindsight, that post could've been more proficiently written:



San Fran doesn't by any means hold a monopoly on horrific events. Just today, the following occurred in Anaheim



That article neglects to mention though:


Ms. Lear, was at the time, fleeing from JJ DeAngelo*, decked out in Mickey Mouse get-up. Disneyland had hired dude as a Theme Character, after he was granted a
Compassionate Release, and the park decided to participate in Cali's prisoner re-entry program. Clearly though, some habits are much tougher to kick than tobacco and opiates are



* https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_James_DeAngelo
 

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You sir, have a very bizarre sense of humor... Morose might be a suitable adjective.
"Morbid", "Grim", and "Macabre" might actually be more apt. So much so, that I'm only sharing my riff on Boy Meets World alum Trina McGee getting knocked up at age 54 here https://thefreespeechforum.com/thre...-on-boy-meets-world-is-54-and-pregnant.24777/

While hoping and praying that TFSG lives up to it's mandate :confused:

Bringing this back around, kinda sorta, to the subject of this thread. There's evidence indicating thay women(Especially White women, hailing from upper income homes)are more likely to identify as Progressive, and be deeply immersed in social justice culture. Folks in this demographic are predisposed towards what Haslam et al have termed Concept Creep




Stands to reason then:

There most likely are at least a few women in America occupying the bench right now, who harbor a highly elastic definition of words such as "harm" and "trauma", which in turn influence the rulings they're handing down. When a judge believes that sentencing a dope fiend to the maximum, for a grand larceny which he or she is guilty of, would be "harming" or "traumatizing" them... Well, justice clearly isn't a priority, when ever she's commanding a court room
 
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Seriously @BaronOfHair - reading and trying to put together the endless pop culture references and the idea of watching all the videos and reading all the URL's you post in a single post makes my resting heart rate go from 58 to 94 sometimes.

p.s. It's meant as constructive criticism, if people ;TLDR your posts (as I often do) you're not achieving what I presume to be your goal: to engage in discussion.
 

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Seriously @BaronOfHair - reading and trying to put together the endless pop culture references and the idea of watching all the videos and reading all the URL's you post in a single post makes my resting heart rate go from 58 to 94 sometimes.
Most of my references aren't pop cultural, for whatever consolation that provides. Everyone has a choice to either destroy their remaining grey matter playing The X Box, or to enrich their minds, by watching the educational vids and links I've provided. No judgment either way :p:cool:
 

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High crime correlates with the levels of identity politics that stupid/spineless local politicians embrace
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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