Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Its cool thanks for the feedback. I stopped using that first photo after @cola suggestion long ago. 2nd photo worked great for me. I was getting daily matches on all apps back when I was on the market. The chicks were decently hot black girls too 6-7 range. Occasionally I would match with an 8. Professional photos are the key.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I did not get them whitened. I just take good care of them.
We all know my personality is broken, so let's just keep to aesthetics. I'm
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Lose the glasses. 2nd pic is the best for coffee shop type of girls but the far left might legit help you out in a beach town. I say stick with those styles but change the venue/settings. You guys all need to look into lifestyle photographers. For the second pic, I recommend having that exact style but take it in a coffee shop or some nice big Irish Bar (ideally at a booth). For the far left pic, I recommend doing it at a surfing store or perhaps at a beach.I'll play along. 47 or 48 in these pics. (49 in a few days)
Only differences are my hair is long enough to tie back now and have a few more tats including the
infamously ill advised neck tattoo.
curious to know how other guys see me.
Those are just some general pics, not the set I use on Tinder. I need the glasses to see my phone, but appreciate the tips.
The middle pic is dope.I'll play along. 47 or 48 in these pics. (49 in a few days)
Only differences are my hair is long enough to tie back now and have a few more tats including the
infamously ill advised neck tattoo.
curious to know how other guys see me.
lol yeah, he looks like an Irish Mobster
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Lose the third pic. You look great in the other onesBUMP for a great, positive thread. New members should join in.
Here’s some shots of me, curious to here your guys’ thoughts and suggestions. 5’11 barefoot, 180 lbs, 19 y/o, benching 5x10 of 265.
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Somehow your pics take me back to my days of watching porn. I feel like you look like every other interracial porn actor out there lol.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Get to work Jesse.
How to find one that isn’t a scam? I got professional pics years ago but they didn’t seem to work. I stayed a virgin that year
You look up lifestyle photographer in your area and then check their IG account, all good ones will have an IG account displaying their work.
Cool but how to know when I found one that is making pics that will help vs just professional looking pics?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
